11-09-2010, 12:01 AM
Wei Shan Yang wrote:pegy wrote:Wei Shan Yang wrote:Its the pain and suffering in dual experience that makes us long for completeness again. This is the value of negative emotions, cries for love are cries for completion. As Lonewolf said, "the path with heart can be heartbreaking too." We wander here lonely and forget we are eternity, something must wake us up to remember. I may never reach the goal, the most I can do is love as much as I can while here.you are still on the way of the expectation, that is why you think about broken heart. it is not broken heart that one feel, it is effort that we make to ignore will of our heart. when self-importance is still demanding condition to love.
if we learn to perceive with heart, we learn to recognize its will. and then we choose. to act violent upon heart or not.
pegy, if I lose from my life those I love, I will miss them so much and there is nothing I can do to avoid this broken heart if it happens. I like to think of this now while they are here with me and I can still touch them, speak with them, enjoy their company; it helps me appreciate these loved ones even more as a result. It makes me realize that they are precious to me, illuminates the path that is heart.
We must not take things for granted. This is easy to do if we feel we got it all figured out, all safe and secure. Then a tsunami hits and we see we didn't have it all figured out at all. As nice as it is to come to forums and discuss, if we lost our families it would change our lives, and we should take heed of this. Not because we expect it will happen, but becasue it will show us what really matters beyond our mental conceptualizations, and then we can act upon it, and this will enliven our hearts. Doing this ushers in the magic of eternity. That aliveness of every particle, the connectedness.
We cant predict anything - we can only choose to observe according what we want to be - can you tell someone - don't die - i love you and I'll suffer because of that. It sound common - to make condition to love - we follow ego - not heart in that moment.
You are just trying to figure out what love is, some construction that can be broken- it is not love. If you follow like this with time you come to situation to shut up heart - don't love any more - our construction fall dawn - and heart suffer, not ego, ego is to stupid for that. - you find out reason - death is one. it would be to silly that love cant exist because someone is dead, what love is then- something to be or not? What is for ever - is love that?
Heart lead on the way of heart - never when you start to go on the way of heart, when you learn to listen its voice. heart can be broken.
You broke it because you are still not on the way of heart. You don't want to love if someone is dead. You don't want death to bring people you love away - because they don't live in you heart - you have never been their witness in silence of heart.
Expectation we have by descriptions in the mind - we cant ever get rid of them - but there is always place where we look for answers - where we look for our connection with our will, no tsunami have approach to that place, it belong to eternity, heart is place which descriptions doesn't reach. It doesn't need construction to love.
when you learn not to stop heart will - voice of heart- you ll know that the only one that suffer on the way of expectation is heart because of violence it have to resist - we have choice to follow its will or not - world of ego and descriptions that we follow in our thoughts are not the way of heart, not the space where it live.
When you collect enough of silence - moments without dialogue about condition of love - you ll know what it is about to have strange installation, ego under obsession of reality.
Every moment of inner silence make silence grow.
We have power within - to love is most beautiful and most natural thing to do.
Silence doesn't give reason to think about why we can't love - we just do it.
Perceive with heart - that is all.
As I see you make agreements about things we have to be worry about - helpless people are all around - they follow same description.
Why you do the same thing ?. Look in a new way - put descriptions of worry aside .
Descriptions are like a rock - cant move it upon hill where is better view. They don't solve anything, just give the reason - we want to be shore we are in wright game when love - there is no way for that - you need to enter another space for answers, space of inner. silence
Heart - if you don't see its straight - you look in wrong direction. You are looking for power out of yourself- nagual is in the Heart that is inside you.
if we learn to perceive with heart, we learn to recognize its will. and then we choose. to act violent upon heart or not.
pegy, if I lose from my life those I love, I will miss them so much and there is nothing I can do to avoid this broken heart if it happens. I like to think of this now while they are here with me and I can still touch them, speak with them, enjoy their company; it helps me appreciate these loved ones even more as a result. It makes me realize that they are precious to me, illuminates the path that is heart.
We must not take things for granted. This is easy to do if we feel we got it all figured out, all safe and secure. Then a tsunami hits and we see we didn't have it all figured out at all. As nice as it is to come to forums and discuss, if we lost our families it would change our lives, and we should take heed of this. Not because we expect it will happen, but becasue it will show us what really matters beyond our mental conceptualizations, and then we can act upon it, and this will enliven our hearts. Doing this ushers in the magic of eternity. That aliveness of every particle, the connectedness.
We cant predict anything - we can only choose to observe according what we want to be - can you tell someone - don't die - i love you and I'll suffer because of that. It sound common - to make condition to love - we follow ego - not heart in that moment.
You are just trying to figure out what love is, some construction that can be broken- it is not love. If you follow like this with time you come to situation to shut up heart - don't love any more - our construction fall dawn - and heart suffer, not ego, ego is to stupid for that. - you find out reason - death is one. it would be to silly that love cant exist because someone is dead, what love is then- something to be or not? What is for ever - is love that?
Heart lead on the way of heart - never when you start to go on the way of heart, when you learn to listen its voice. heart can be broken.
You broke it because you are still not on the way of heart. You don't want to love if someone is dead. You don't want death to bring people you love away - because they don't live in you heart - you have never been their witness in silence of heart.
Expectation we have by descriptions in the mind - we cant ever get rid of them - but there is always place where we look for answers - where we look for our connection with our will, no tsunami have approach to that place, it belong to eternity, heart is place which descriptions doesn't reach. It doesn't need construction to love.
when you learn not to stop heart will - voice of heart- you ll know that the only one that suffer on the way of expectation is heart because of violence it have to resist - we have choice to follow its will or not - world of ego and descriptions that we follow in our thoughts are not the way of heart, not the space where it live.
When you collect enough of silence - moments without dialogue about condition of love - you ll know what it is about to have strange installation, ego under obsession of reality.
Every moment of inner silence make silence grow.
We have power within - to love is most beautiful and most natural thing to do.
Silence doesn't give reason to think about why we can't love - we just do it.
Perceive with heart - that is all.
As I see you make agreements about things we have to be worry about - helpless people are all around - they follow same description.
Why you do the same thing ?. Look in a new way - put descriptions of worry aside .
Descriptions are like a rock - cant move it upon hill where is better view. They don't solve anything, just give the reason - we want to be shore we are in wright game when love - there is no way for that - you need to enter another space for answers, space of inner. silence
Heart - if you don't see its straight - you look in wrong direction. You are looking for power out of yourself- nagual is in the Heart that is inside you.