06-26-2014, 12:00 AM
youre welcome and if you have any other questions or suggestions, feel free to share.
I welcome open polite discussion and/or questions on policy issues. No body is perfect and things can always improve, and sharing ideas is one way how that happens . Also it might help if the member who is asking understands our reasons for some of the policies etc.
(However, I do not welcome such discussions on site matters which are veiled to be fine and on topic when they have sharp edges underneath, because in those cases it not an issue of the policies as such but something else veiled to be a policy issue, so of course it can be a waste of time as there are low chances that things will be resolved by discussing policies. The thing why I do not like it is cause the talk cannot really help given what the person has chosen to discuss but also because it is uncomfortable to talk in such an space. What I see happening is a dissatisfied person trying to find a carrier for his or her dissatisfaction to make some sense of it. It does not really help given what the person has chosen to discuss. Cant tidy the ocean floor if all one does is splash on the surface of the water. Those types of talks tend to be a waste of time and energy too, especially if people get emotional over basically nothing and not the right thing anyhow - one needs to look/self-stalk to know where their emotion is actually coming from, not just notice where it lands, what it attaches itself to).
I welcome open polite discussion and/or questions on policy issues. No body is perfect and things can always improve, and sharing ideas is one way how that happens . Also it might help if the member who is asking understands our reasons for some of the policies etc.
(However, I do not welcome such discussions on site matters which are veiled to be fine and on topic when they have sharp edges underneath, because in those cases it not an issue of the policies as such but something else veiled to be a policy issue, so of course it can be a waste of time as there are low chances that things will be resolved by discussing policies. The thing why I do not like it is cause the talk cannot really help given what the person has chosen to discuss but also because it is uncomfortable to talk in such an space. What I see happening is a dissatisfied person trying to find a carrier for his or her dissatisfaction to make some sense of it. It does not really help given what the person has chosen to discuss. Cant tidy the ocean floor if all one does is splash on the surface of the water. Those types of talks tend to be a waste of time and energy too, especially if people get emotional over basically nothing and not the right thing anyhow - one needs to look/self-stalk to know where their emotion is actually coming from, not just notice where it lands, what it attaches itself to).