02-15-2014, 12:00 AM
Wolf, there are somethings I don't mind so much. I've lost count of the number of people who have shitted in my areas. As to whether or not I like it, initially I don't. I'm human too and find certain actions disrespectful.
On the other hand, I can't control what others do. I can only decide how I want to feel and for me, I find a method of turning their actions into something tangible I can work with. So in my case when people do things I find disrespectful, I support them. Tell them how funny it is, laugh it up, or sometimes I'll even correct them if they've said something wrong (like maybe they said I like pickles but really I hate pickles, so I correct things of that nature.)
Why do I laugh it up with them when they poke me? 'Cause, it kills the anger within me and it shows them I'm comfortable in my own skin. I don't need them to prove or disprove who I know I am. It's ok that they see things differently than I do.
Though I understand why you deleted my thread. It was disrespectful of your space. However the other two threads were not. Yet I even understand your action regarding the two other threads. So, it's ok with me. Everything you do is ok with me. It's just, well. It would be nice to have a leader to stand behind. It would be nice to stand behind you.
On the other hand, I can't control what others do. I can only decide how I want to feel and for me, I find a method of turning their actions into something tangible I can work with. So in my case when people do things I find disrespectful, I support them. Tell them how funny it is, laugh it up, or sometimes I'll even correct them if they've said something wrong (like maybe they said I like pickles but really I hate pickles, so I correct things of that nature.)
Why do I laugh it up with them when they poke me? 'Cause, it kills the anger within me and it shows them I'm comfortable in my own skin. I don't need them to prove or disprove who I know I am. It's ok that they see things differently than I do.
Though I understand why you deleted my thread. It was disrespectful of your space. However the other two threads were not. Yet I even understand your action regarding the two other threads. So, it's ok with me. Everything you do is ok with me. It's just, well. It would be nice to have a leader to stand behind. It would be nice to stand behind you.