10-26-2017, 12:01 AM
Wow, that sure did open up a can of worms. So be it. I trust all that sticky squirming around will result in them unraveling themselves to be singled out along he edges to be dealt with individualy.
One thing I know. The compulsion to bring the derangement of pessimism in to the process is a grave mistake. Light, detached, optimism is the better tone to open a path for consistent progression. Just a personal note.
With respect to sexual celibacy.....personal forbearance. I'm no rapist (I guess I could easily have been, if I were born with more energy and under different, more hostile circumstances). But there has been plenty of pushing, pressuring beyond the integrity of whatever that boundary is. Lots of fantasizing that didn't take the other into consideration. That's beyond consent in a way, I believe. And lots of weak, low energy groping and subtle coercing that also didn't take another into consideration. All up for review.
One thing I know. The compulsion to bring the derangement of pessimism in to the process is a grave mistake. Light, detached, optimism is the better tone to open a path for consistent progression. Just a personal note.
With respect to sexual celibacy.....personal forbearance. I'm no rapist (I guess I could easily have been, if I were born with more energy and under different, more hostile circumstances). But there has been plenty of pushing, pressuring beyond the integrity of whatever that boundary is. Lots of fantasizing that didn't take the other into consideration. That's beyond consent in a way, I believe. And lots of weak, low energy groping and subtle coercing that also didn't take another into consideration. All up for review.