03-20-2014, 12:00 AM
Also by Kelly Marceau
Men Who Don’t Pay For First Dates Are Cheap Bastards!
by Kelly Marceau | Jan 30, 2014 | RANTS, RELATIONSHIPS, SEX, SPIRITUALITY, STATES OF BEING | 27 comments
You are a Cheap Bastard if you ask a woman on a date and don’t pay or worse, expect her to go DUTCH.
First impressions ARE EVERYTHING!
If you own a business and you are wooing potential clients you pay the WHOLE CHECK. It’s customary… Why would it be any different when you are trying to court a woman?
The Cheap Bastards of the WORLD are UNATTRACTIVE and GROSS.
A man who actually describes himself as cheap probably has control
issues with money. Cheap is not frugal. Cheap is CHEAP and a cheap
tipper will get me to bounce faster than a bad kisser. He’s either
broke, weird about money, a tight ass, or something else is going on
that I, personally, want no part of.
WHO PAYS ON FIRST DATES MATTERS. IT MATTERS A LOT.
Some men resent the traditions that have locked them in the role of
provider. A lot men don’t want to work that hard and don’t want the
responsibility. The mentality is— women are taking on the world, earning
just as much as men now, so shouldn’t who pays be redefined? SERIOUSLY? No
matter what women do you still have your part to play. Some men ****
about how much it costs them to date. Listen, if you can’t afford a BMW
you don’t buy one. You have to live within your means. If you can’t
afford to serial date, then date sparingly.
MOST WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR GENTLEMAN AND LOVE WHEN THEY DATE.
A man who doesn’t want to pay on the first date is NOT a KEEPER.
If you’re a woman and you want to throw down on the first date, you
better be prepared to act like a man in your relationship. When a woman
denies a man his generosity he is less likely to want to give it or try
as hard. So just remember that when you are out on first dates and
offering up your cash.
If you are a man and you want to make a good first impression PAY THE CHECK DUDE. Most men I have spoken to say this shouldn’t even be a question, true gentleman WANT TO PAY. If
you truly cannot afford to pay, stop whining and get creative!!!!! You
can do cool **** that doesn’t cost money but you need to think outside
the box.
A generous or creative man is way more appealing to a woman than a penny pitching tightwad with no vision.
For those of you men who are looking for a woman to be your sugar
mama and float your existence, and you have no problem joining the
parade of man-women who make you their ****, just know that eventually
she will outsource your ass because women who have to pay, especially
for men, are often looking for the next best thing. If she has to pay,
you can guarantee she will get what she wants and have HIGH EXPECTATIONS. Women who act like men, act like men in more ways than one.
I realize that not ALL WOMEN are remarkable. Some
women are so lame they are not worth your money, time or energy. If you
are a man out on date with a woman who talks non-stop about herself and
has no real remote interest in you, then by all means, allow her to pay
for torturing you with the worst date EVER. If you go on a date with a NARCISSISTIC ****
it is okay to excuse yourself to the restroom and bounce. You don’t
have to pay for that ****. Narcissists need a dose of their own medicine
and since almost nothing gets them to awaken, a rude awakening is just
the kind of wake up call these women need. (THIS IS THE ONE EXCEPTION YOU DON’T HAVE TO PAY.)
JUST TO BE CLEAR: I didn’t say you could be a jerk to the women who are decent but you don’t want to date again. ONLY the narcissists get the bounce.
MEN… if you go out on a first date with a woman who insists on paying
you need to realize that this woman is never going to let you be the
man and if you like that kind of thing, alright. If you want to be with a
woman who doesn’t always need to wear the pants, you’d better pay.
Not all STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMEN are
extreme feminists who want to act like dudes in the dating world. Just
because you are a strong independent woman doesn’t mean you don’t
appreciate certain traditional male roles.
Many traditional male roles embody the DIVINE MASCULINE. I
would never give a man the time of day if he wanted to be the woman in
the dynamic. I am not a lesbian. I don’t want to be with a feminine man
who wants to be courted and treated like a lady. I want to be with a
masculine man who knows how to and WANTS to properly court women.
All you people who want to blur the lines of gender and make men and
women the same are damaging the profound understanding it requires to
acknowledge the DIFFERENCES between MEN and WOMEN. Whether you like it or not, WE ARE NOT THE SAME!
If you want to be a woman, get a sex change, but don’t subject us to your bullshit.
I like MEN who act LIKE MEN and use their feminine wisely.
When a man offers to walk with me somewhere, just to be by my side
because there is some part of him that wants to make sure I am safe I
feel cherished. When a man opens my door, brings me flowers, or takes me
to UNCER racing for a first date rather the typical dinner date it
makes FEELS GOOD! Men who go out of their way ROCK.
I’m not a great planner and I spend so much time doing things for others it’s really nice when a man SHOWS UP and takes the reigns. I like a man who thinks outside the box. I want to be treated like a GODDESS and so DO MOST WOMEN. Gentlemanly
qualities and charm are not outdated. We women need to revive the
desire for chivalry, romance, and courting. These things make A LOT of
women feel good. The fact that some women have done away with
appreciating such tokens of affection and respect is so tragic.
I think ALL WOMEN need to cherish their femininity and look at it as
empowering, rather than trying to prove something to men that we don’t
need to prove. I don’t think all tradition is bullshit. I also don’t
think that by expressing the value I see in certain traditional male and
female roles that I’m giving away my power. I can RECEIVE and not feel
like I owe someone something. I don’t need to prove just how self
sufficient I am. I see myself in action every fucking day.
Men and Women have relationships for a reason. I see so many people
in denial about what they need, what they want, and what truly matters
to them. We need to get beyond all the bullshit and GET REAL about what we really want and be okay with it.
Some UBER feminists have told me that I cannot call myself an
independent woman and expect men to pay. I think that is utter bullshit
propaganda from women who have suffocated their own femininity. Women
who have lost sight of the value of allowing men to act like MEN need to
get off their THRONE and come back down to Earth. If
you are an extreme feminist who needs to prove who is boss in your world
and you find it demeaning when a man tries to treat you to a date,
don’t ruin it for the rest of us who aren’t competing with men or
threatened by men.
So what if you can open your own door and you don’t need a man for
this or that. If you are having sex or relationships with men then stop
wearing the “I DON’T NEED A MAN FACADE.” Let down your
guard, and realize that you don’t need to prove you can make your own
way to show just how capable you are. Women who go out with men but then
treat men like they don’t need them are robbing themselves of something
that is meant to elicit joy. It is also sending mixed messages to men.
Maybe one of the reasons a lot of men avoid strong women is because
they’ve been castrated by too many obnoxious hard core feminists who
don’t see the value in what men actually have to offer.
Just so you MEN know, not all of us are tainted.
I believe that women need men. Women NEED MEN TO ACT LIKE MEN.
Let’s not lose those values… We can embrace some traditions without losing our worth.
The men who fight me on this are misogynists at heart.
The men who see the VALUE in what I am saying are gentlemen and were raised properly.
There is no way to eliminate the Cheap Bastards of the world, but you can stop dating them and the narcissists. Eventually the loneliness will get them to wake the ****.
Good Talk, Kelly Marceau
P.S. I would love to create a dialogue around this just to see what
women and men think about this topic. Please tell me your perspective in
the box below so that everyone can begin to see what is on your mind
regarding this topic.
You go girl! I mean that. Go! Go away! Shoo! You ain't wanted here. Git!
Men Who Don’t Pay For First Dates Are Cheap Bastards!
by Kelly Marceau | Jan 30, 2014 | RANTS, RELATIONSHIPS, SEX, SPIRITUALITY, STATES OF BEING | 27 comments
You are a Cheap Bastard if you ask a woman on a date and don’t pay or worse, expect her to go DUTCH.
First impressions ARE EVERYTHING!
If you own a business and you are wooing potential clients you pay the WHOLE CHECK. It’s customary… Why would it be any different when you are trying to court a woman?
The Cheap Bastards of the WORLD are UNATTRACTIVE and GROSS.
A man who actually describes himself as cheap probably has control
issues with money. Cheap is not frugal. Cheap is CHEAP and a cheap
tipper will get me to bounce faster than a bad kisser. He’s either
broke, weird about money, a tight ass, or something else is going on
that I, personally, want no part of.
WHO PAYS ON FIRST DATES MATTERS. IT MATTERS A LOT.
Some men resent the traditions that have locked them in the role of
provider. A lot men don’t want to work that hard and don’t want the
responsibility. The mentality is— women are taking on the world, earning
just as much as men now, so shouldn’t who pays be redefined? SERIOUSLY? No
matter what women do you still have your part to play. Some men ****
about how much it costs them to date. Listen, if you can’t afford a BMW
you don’t buy one. You have to live within your means. If you can’t
afford to serial date, then date sparingly.
MOST WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR GENTLEMAN AND LOVE WHEN THEY DATE.
A man who doesn’t want to pay on the first date is NOT a KEEPER.
If you’re a woman and you want to throw down on the first date, you
better be prepared to act like a man in your relationship. When a woman
denies a man his generosity he is less likely to want to give it or try
as hard. So just remember that when you are out on first dates and
offering up your cash.
If you are a man and you want to make a good first impression PAY THE CHECK DUDE. Most men I have spoken to say this shouldn’t even be a question, true gentleman WANT TO PAY. If
you truly cannot afford to pay, stop whining and get creative!!!!! You
can do cool **** that doesn’t cost money but you need to think outside
the box.
A generous or creative man is way more appealing to a woman than a penny pitching tightwad with no vision.
For those of you men who are looking for a woman to be your sugar
mama and float your existence, and you have no problem joining the
parade of man-women who make you their ****, just know that eventually
she will outsource your ass because women who have to pay, especially
for men, are often looking for the next best thing. If she has to pay,
you can guarantee she will get what she wants and have HIGH EXPECTATIONS. Women who act like men, act like men in more ways than one.
I realize that not ALL WOMEN are remarkable. Some
women are so lame they are not worth your money, time or energy. If you
are a man out on date with a woman who talks non-stop about herself and
has no real remote interest in you, then by all means, allow her to pay
for torturing you with the worst date EVER. If you go on a date with a NARCISSISTIC ****
it is okay to excuse yourself to the restroom and bounce. You don’t
have to pay for that ****. Narcissists need a dose of their own medicine
and since almost nothing gets them to awaken, a rude awakening is just
the kind of wake up call these women need. (THIS IS THE ONE EXCEPTION YOU DON’T HAVE TO PAY.)
JUST TO BE CLEAR: I didn’t say you could be a jerk to the women who are decent but you don’t want to date again. ONLY the narcissists get the bounce.
MEN… if you go out on a first date with a woman who insists on paying
you need to realize that this woman is never going to let you be the
man and if you like that kind of thing, alright. If you want to be with a
woman who doesn’t always need to wear the pants, you’d better pay.
Not all STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMEN are
extreme feminists who want to act like dudes in the dating world. Just
because you are a strong independent woman doesn’t mean you don’t
appreciate certain traditional male roles.
Many traditional male roles embody the DIVINE MASCULINE. I
would never give a man the time of day if he wanted to be the woman in
the dynamic. I am not a lesbian. I don’t want to be with a feminine man
who wants to be courted and treated like a lady. I want to be with a
masculine man who knows how to and WANTS to properly court women.
All you people who want to blur the lines of gender and make men and
women the same are damaging the profound understanding it requires to
acknowledge the DIFFERENCES between MEN and WOMEN. Whether you like it or not, WE ARE NOT THE SAME!
If you want to be a woman, get a sex change, but don’t subject us to your bullshit.
I like MEN who act LIKE MEN and use their feminine wisely.
When a man offers to walk with me somewhere, just to be by my side
because there is some part of him that wants to make sure I am safe I
feel cherished. When a man opens my door, brings me flowers, or takes me
to UNCER racing for a first date rather the typical dinner date it
makes FEELS GOOD! Men who go out of their way ROCK.
I’m not a great planner and I spend so much time doing things for others it’s really nice when a man SHOWS UP and takes the reigns. I like a man who thinks outside the box. I want to be treated like a GODDESS and so DO MOST WOMEN. Gentlemanly
qualities and charm are not outdated. We women need to revive the
desire for chivalry, romance, and courting. These things make A LOT of
women feel good. The fact that some women have done away with
appreciating such tokens of affection and respect is so tragic.
I think ALL WOMEN need to cherish their femininity and look at it as
empowering, rather than trying to prove something to men that we don’t
need to prove. I don’t think all tradition is bullshit. I also don’t
think that by expressing the value I see in certain traditional male and
female roles that I’m giving away my power. I can RECEIVE and not feel
like I owe someone something. I don’t need to prove just how self
sufficient I am. I see myself in action every fucking day.
Men and Women have relationships for a reason. I see so many people
in denial about what they need, what they want, and what truly matters
to them. We need to get beyond all the bullshit and GET REAL about what we really want and be okay with it.
Some UBER feminists have told me that I cannot call myself an
independent woman and expect men to pay. I think that is utter bullshit
propaganda from women who have suffocated their own femininity. Women
who have lost sight of the value of allowing men to act like MEN need to
get off their THRONE and come back down to Earth. If
you are an extreme feminist who needs to prove who is boss in your world
and you find it demeaning when a man tries to treat you to a date,
don’t ruin it for the rest of us who aren’t competing with men or
threatened by men.
So what if you can open your own door and you don’t need a man for
this or that. If you are having sex or relationships with men then stop
wearing the “I DON’T NEED A MAN FACADE.” Let down your
guard, and realize that you don’t need to prove you can make your own
way to show just how capable you are. Women who go out with men but then
treat men like they don’t need them are robbing themselves of something
that is meant to elicit joy. It is also sending mixed messages to men.
Maybe one of the reasons a lot of men avoid strong women is because
they’ve been castrated by too many obnoxious hard core feminists who
don’t see the value in what men actually have to offer.
Just so you MEN know, not all of us are tainted.
I believe that women need men. Women NEED MEN TO ACT LIKE MEN.
Let’s not lose those values… We can embrace some traditions without losing our worth.
The men who fight me on this are misogynists at heart.
The men who see the VALUE in what I am saying are gentlemen and were raised properly.
There is no way to eliminate the Cheap Bastards of the world, but you can stop dating them and the narcissists. Eventually the loneliness will get them to wake the ****.
Good Talk, Kelly Marceau
P.S. I would love to create a dialogue around this just to see what
women and men think about this topic. Please tell me your perspective in
the box below so that everyone can begin to see what is on your mind
regarding this topic.
You go girl! I mean that. Go! Go away! Shoo! You ain't wanted here. Git!