12-27-2008, 12:00 AM
Well, I can share what I am inspired for you; and you have indeed inspired me. I would imagine when most receive such a sign from
the Spirit of the Sentient Universe they don't even notice. It goes right past most people, but it didn't go past you. Fortunate indeed are you!
I am inspired to suggest that rather than focusing primarily on having someone else be a solution to your happiness make the primary focus of your life
becoming the solution for someone else's life. That way YOU are the one in control of the situation. You sound to me as though you are setting your primary
focus on having someone else be the answer for you and I see that as dangerous to your well-being. As John Grey on The Secret DVD said, instead of expecting
someone else to give to make your happiness (((YOU))) be the one who is the source of the happiness you are seeking so that others can benefit from what
overflows in your life.
Again I state that my first impression of your post was that you are setting yourself up to have someone control you and that is not a safe thing to do. I say,
be determined to be the very source of the joy you are seeking from others. Touch your relationships lightly as a bee touches a flower. Never draining it
completely, but leaving it to continually renew its precious nectar.
I still feel that if relationships are to survive the modern age two 'kings' cannot live in the same house. That's what the woman's liberation
movement has done. The home is no longer the man's castle. A man comes home to a house where the woman is determined NOT to be submissive. She wants equal
rights. A house with two kings is the stage for divorce and the creation of yet another gay man. That's what the woman's liberation movement has
essentially done; emasculated the emotional manhood of men and turned them into wishy-washy uninspiring wimpy types.
So, if you want equal rights in the relationship and you want that relationship to last I strongly suggest you both live in separate houses and see each other
at your best. Everyone needs their own private space to be themselves without the judgment of others.
As far as you ex is concerned. I suggest you be grateful in advance for the signs the universe will give you as to what you should do. Chances are you just may
find your solution in having a relationship where you live separately.
Well, that's the best I have to offer you. I hope it helps. Remember to think for yourself because…everything in this post may be incorrect. Leaning on
others to provide solutions for you is nowhere as strong and reliable as being the source of all the solutions you may need in life.
Believe in yourself and get stronger in your single-minded passionately focused Intent. What I have shared on the thread I created here might help.
the Spirit of the Sentient Universe they don't even notice. It goes right past most people, but it didn't go past you. Fortunate indeed are you!
I am inspired to suggest that rather than focusing primarily on having someone else be a solution to your happiness make the primary focus of your life
becoming the solution for someone else's life. That way YOU are the one in control of the situation. You sound to me as though you are setting your primary
focus on having someone else be the answer for you and I see that as dangerous to your well-being. As John Grey on The Secret DVD said, instead of expecting
someone else to give to make your happiness (((YOU))) be the one who is the source of the happiness you are seeking so that others can benefit from what
overflows in your life.
Again I state that my first impression of your post was that you are setting yourself up to have someone control you and that is not a safe thing to do. I say,
be determined to be the very source of the joy you are seeking from others. Touch your relationships lightly as a bee touches a flower. Never draining it
completely, but leaving it to continually renew its precious nectar.
I still feel that if relationships are to survive the modern age two 'kings' cannot live in the same house. That's what the woman's liberation
movement has done. The home is no longer the man's castle. A man comes home to a house where the woman is determined NOT to be submissive. She wants equal
rights. A house with two kings is the stage for divorce and the creation of yet another gay man. That's what the woman's liberation movement has
essentially done; emasculated the emotional manhood of men and turned them into wishy-washy uninspiring wimpy types.
So, if you want equal rights in the relationship and you want that relationship to last I strongly suggest you both live in separate houses and see each other
at your best. Everyone needs their own private space to be themselves without the judgment of others.
As far as you ex is concerned. I suggest you be grateful in advance for the signs the universe will give you as to what you should do. Chances are you just may
find your solution in having a relationship where you live separately.
Well, that's the best I have to offer you. I hope it helps. Remember to think for yourself because…everything in this post may be incorrect. Leaning on
others to provide solutions for you is nowhere as strong and reliable as being the source of all the solutions you may need in life.
Believe in yourself and get stronger in your single-minded passionately focused Intent. What I have shared on the thread I created here might help.