04-30-2016, 12:10 AM
serloco wrote:.... You see you are telling the action what to be and do. It is the essence of your attention that pour into the potion or substance. As you make it you tell it what to do and what to be. I transoform the essence of intent and attention into substance....
The moment I saw those words I jumped up and walked to where Susan was sitting, knowing she would not want me to touch her because of her hostile mood. I acted as if I were to walk past to adjust the blinds and then I pounced on her to hug and nestle my face to hers. She was a perturbed animal too... biting and scratching, and bitching. Yet, I got that release of energy from her; and, she was totally disarmed and rendered fairly docile.
This same day, she was trying her old ways and I put it to a stop instantaneously. I stared at her to purposefully to highlight having stopped her, so she had the recognition herself that I had done this. She looked at me helplessly childlike.. then- omg, she got giddy and giggly.
I never made her giggle like that in over forty years. I am very much succeeding at increasing her moments of lightheartedness and fun.
The moment I saw those words I jumped up and walked to where Susan was sitting, knowing she would not want me to touch her because of her hostile mood. I acted as if I were to walk past to adjust the blinds and then I pounced on her to hug and nestle my face to hers. She was a perturbed animal too... biting and scratching, and bitching. Yet, I got that release of energy from her; and, she was totally disarmed and rendered fairly docile.
This same day, she was trying her old ways and I put it to a stop instantaneously. I stared at her to purposefully to highlight having stopped her, so she had the recognition herself that I had done this. She looked at me helplessly childlike.. then- omg, she got giddy and giggly.
I never made her giggle like that in over forty years. I am very much succeeding at increasing her moments of lightheartedness and fun.