03-05-2017, 12:00 AM
serloco wrote:
Your telepathic music video reminded me of something a girlfriend once told me. She could also anticipate my needs like what your video suggests. One day she just left me, without a word. Her behavior shocked me. Eventually, I realized her leaving had nothing to do with me. I just happened to be living in a small town, with small minds, and it was the environment we were living within which caused her to flee. It wasn't me. I was one of the things she did care about and it showed in the connection we shared. I actually later found out that she stayed as long as she did to help build me a place to thrive in. It wasn't that she left me, it's that she needed a different environment.
Later I did speak with her. She told me she loved me and did her best to support me for as long as possible. Telepathic people often know we love them even when we haven't verbally expressed those feelings. It is why they chose to support us, because they love us too. In their own twisted and cruel way.
At the time I didn't understand why someone who loved me would leave me. Later I realized love sees beyond emotional desires. Love is not a caress to obtain. Love is to see deeply enough into another person to know when our presence is causing more harm than good.
Should anyone decide to leave me in the future, I hope they would do it the way she had. She set me up for success by providing me the tools I needed and the space I required to use those tools to build myself into a better vision of what I wanted for myself. Not once had she told me how to build. Instead, she gave me tools to do the work, had I wanted to build a better self. I wish more would do that for people. Offer resources, but not exert control over what was built. I wanted to be with her; but before I had the chance to ask she had vanished. It's almost as though she knew what I wanted and stopped me before I had the chance to make it a big thing. I hate women who don't even let me propose an idea because they've already seen it in my mind and responded. Let me at least propose the notion of romance before she shoots me down! I mean, seriously! It's rude to just read my mind, then not let me share it. Those witches just have no idea how infuriating they can be sometimes. No idea.
I hear the message in Telepathic. She loved you in a way most don't love. She loved you enough to give you space to work on things of greater importance than herself. Use the time apart to grow your trees. Your trees deserve the attention, care, and love you wanted to give her. She wants you to devote your energy to your inner trees, not to her. Friends respect the space others need to grow themselves. Don't wait for her. Live your life. It's what I'm sure she would want. If not, then she's not worth waiting for. Either way, the right answer is to live your life.
Your telepathic music video reminded me of something a girlfriend once told me. She could also anticipate my needs like what your video suggests. One day she just left me, without a word. Her behavior shocked me. Eventually, I realized her leaving had nothing to do with me. I just happened to be living in a small town, with small minds, and it was the environment we were living within which caused her to flee. It wasn't me. I was one of the things she did care about and it showed in the connection we shared. I actually later found out that she stayed as long as she did to help build me a place to thrive in. It wasn't that she left me, it's that she needed a different environment.
Later I did speak with her. She told me she loved me and did her best to support me for as long as possible. Telepathic people often know we love them even when we haven't verbally expressed those feelings. It is why they chose to support us, because they love us too. In their own twisted and cruel way.
At the time I didn't understand why someone who loved me would leave me. Later I realized love sees beyond emotional desires. Love is not a caress to obtain. Love is to see deeply enough into another person to know when our presence is causing more harm than good.
Should anyone decide to leave me in the future, I hope they would do it the way she had. She set me up for success by providing me the tools I needed and the space I required to use those tools to build myself into a better vision of what I wanted for myself. Not once had she told me how to build. Instead, she gave me tools to do the work, had I wanted to build a better self. I wish more would do that for people. Offer resources, but not exert control over what was built. I wanted to be with her; but before I had the chance to ask she had vanished. It's almost as though she knew what I wanted and stopped me before I had the chance to make it a big thing. I hate women who don't even let me propose an idea because they've already seen it in my mind and responded. Let me at least propose the notion of romance before she shoots me down! I mean, seriously! It's rude to just read my mind, then not let me share it. Those witches just have no idea how infuriating they can be sometimes. No idea.
I hear the message in Telepathic. She loved you in a way most don't love. She loved you enough to give you space to work on things of greater importance than herself. Use the time apart to grow your trees. Your trees deserve the attention, care, and love you wanted to give her. She wants you to devote your energy to your inner trees, not to her. Friends respect the space others need to grow themselves. Don't wait for her. Live your life. It's what I'm sure she would want. If not, then she's not worth waiting for. Either way, the right answer is to live your life.