09-16-2011, 12:02 AM
Gonzo's perception is that S wants combat (probably based on Gonzo actually being the one that wants combat in order to ignore S so that he can win some unresolved battle in the recesses of his mind).
On the other hand, I percieved S as posting all this here as some kind of record keeping probably based on that there is something unresolved about what is happening in the SR or as an attempt to understand why people are objecting to his posts which is apparent he feels are all justified. I do not consider my perception to the reality of what he is doing...instead is only a function of how I interpret how much I can see of what he is doing.
In no post have I perceived a desire for combat, instead it all seems more like a defense against where he felt wronged. I do percieve his desire for a conversation. However, this is where the difficulty comes up. S, your posts are too long...no one is probably reading them through and so rather than converse on your points they are conversing on the fact that you are posting. Some, who are looking for trouble are looking for you to say something wrong that they can jump on...and when you do, they do.
One way to have intellegent conversation (and I am offering this because you stated that maybe someone can show you), is to create a post at the intellegence level that you wish to converse at...and then ruthlessly stick to only responding to any intellegent point made. The attention whores will wither away as they realize that you aren't feeding them. Don't feed any commentary, be ruthless about this. Feed only what you want more of...and, again, be ruthless about this.
On the other hand, I percieved S as posting all this here as some kind of record keeping probably based on that there is something unresolved about what is happening in the SR or as an attempt to understand why people are objecting to his posts which is apparent he feels are all justified. I do not consider my perception to the reality of what he is doing...instead is only a function of how I interpret how much I can see of what he is doing.
In no post have I perceived a desire for combat, instead it all seems more like a defense against where he felt wronged. I do percieve his desire for a conversation. However, this is where the difficulty comes up. S, your posts are too long...no one is probably reading them through and so rather than converse on your points they are conversing on the fact that you are posting. Some, who are looking for trouble are looking for you to say something wrong that they can jump on...and when you do, they do.
One way to have intellegent conversation (and I am offering this because you stated that maybe someone can show you), is to create a post at the intellegence level that you wish to converse at...and then ruthlessly stick to only responding to any intellegent point made. The attention whores will wither away as they realize that you aren't feeding them. Don't feed any commentary, be ruthless about this. Feed only what you want more of...and, again, be ruthless about this.