01-21-2018, 12:00 AM
Hi,
You leave your perspective and grounded place (building) to enter your friend's space (car). Your friends don't think you should. He has an older woman, probably his mother, that has a strong effect on his decisions. He can't actually shed his space (compromise) but would like to! He likes to meet because you represent the freedom that he seeks. If he can truly shed her influence, he might be a good companion! But of course that can only be accomplished by him, without you addressing it... That would bring resentment. Hope you are patient!
You leave your perspective and grounded place (building) to enter your friend's space (car). Your friends don't think you should. He has an older woman, probably his mother, that has a strong effect on his decisions. He can't actually shed his space (compromise) but would like to! He likes to meet because you represent the freedom that he seeks. If he can truly shed her influence, he might be a good companion! But of course that can only be accomplished by him, without you addressing it... That would bring resentment. Hope you are patient!