10-30-2010, 12:00 AM
Dreamgirl, we are all fighty and I had hopes that it would evolve into something else but Kris has dropped the bucket and left the groups even before seeing my reply. Maybe he will reconsider after taking some distance, don't know.
I think this group is in the beginnings and like the I ching hexagram Difficulty in the beginning states, works supreme success:
DIFFICULTY AT THE BEGINNING works supreme success,
Furthering through perseverance.
Nothing should be undertaken.
It furthers one to appoint helpers.
Times of growth are beset with difficulties. They resemble a first birth. But
these difficulties arise from the very profusion of all that is struggling to
attain form . Everything is in motion: therefore if one perseveres there is a
prospect of great success, in spite of the existing danger. When it is a man's
fate to undertake such new beginnings, everything is still unformed, dark.
Hence he must hold back, because any premature move might bring disaster.
Likewise, it is very important not to remain alone; in order to overcome the
chaos he needs helpers. This is not to say, however, that he himself should
look on passively at what is happening. He must lend his hand and
participate with inspiration and guidance.
http://deoxy.org/iching/3
I can be a helper by getting out of my ruts, I made a good break a few weeks ago but they have crept back up on me. I dreamt better when I was mixing the routines up and getting things organised.
I need some time to break from K too, to recap my part in things and then I might write him a note if the signs suggest so but I feel like right now is too soon, I am too close to the emotion and irritation at this time.
Ah, the directions, I think I am a western dreamer who rises in the east again and again. I have an affinity for both directions. The west takes me into the unknown and into deaths and the east heals me and gives life : )
I think this group is in the beginnings and like the I ching hexagram Difficulty in the beginning states, works supreme success:
DIFFICULTY AT THE BEGINNING works supreme success,
Furthering through perseverance.
Nothing should be undertaken.
It furthers one to appoint helpers.
Times of growth are beset with difficulties. They resemble a first birth. But
these difficulties arise from the very profusion of all that is struggling to
attain form . Everything is in motion: therefore if one perseveres there is a
prospect of great success, in spite of the existing danger. When it is a man's
fate to undertake such new beginnings, everything is still unformed, dark.
Hence he must hold back, because any premature move might bring disaster.
Likewise, it is very important not to remain alone; in order to overcome the
chaos he needs helpers. This is not to say, however, that he himself should
look on passively at what is happening. He must lend his hand and
participate with inspiration and guidance.
http://deoxy.org/iching/3
I can be a helper by getting out of my ruts, I made a good break a few weeks ago but they have crept back up on me. I dreamt better when I was mixing the routines up and getting things organised.
I need some time to break from K too, to recap my part in things and then I might write him a note if the signs suggest so but I feel like right now is too soon, I am too close to the emotion and irritation at this time.
Ah, the directions, I think I am a western dreamer who rises in the east again and again. I have an affinity for both directions. The west takes me into the unknown and into deaths and the east heals me and gives life : )

