03-20-2009, 12:00 AM
bentheben wrote:
Well I thought I knew how to identify wheteher the person grabbed or summoned is real or not. But now I am not so sure anymore. Last night while I was lucid
I tried to grab a person and once I did dreams collapsed, all went dark but I kept my awareness and in couple of seconds new dream background appeared and
the person that I wanted to grab. I asked the person who is it many times and it said his/her name and I think we made eye contact but I wasn't really
paying much attention to its eyes. Anyway the next day I asked that person but she doesn't remember any dreams for that night. So now I don't know
whether it was a IB or was it a real person or could it be that I have "created" that person in my mind? Any suggestions on what to do in
situations like this? How to make sure what is it (Ok probably if I could see energy then it wouldn't be such a problem)? Thank you for your time.
Another way to look at dreaming together is as sharing a dream. But, here's the thing about dream sharing, it is not merging. So, its either your dream
that is shared or the other person's. With inorganic beings, it is usually the IB's dream that is being shared as it naturally has control over its
own dreaming, but we don't. If you can create a solid dream environment and bring somebody else into it, then you are an accomplished sorcerer. It is
easier for a dreamer to just make a "guest appearance" in somebody else's dream instead. One has to intend to find, but not interrupt the other
person in their dream, and then fit into that dream. If two people are trying to share a dream on purpose, they would first have to decide which of them will
be holding the dream and who will be entering it. There is a natural tendency for people to do one or the other.
Well I thought I knew how to identify wheteher the person grabbed or summoned is real or not. But now I am not so sure anymore. Last night while I was lucid
I tried to grab a person and once I did dreams collapsed, all went dark but I kept my awareness and in couple of seconds new dream background appeared and
the person that I wanted to grab. I asked the person who is it many times and it said his/her name and I think we made eye contact but I wasn't really
paying much attention to its eyes. Anyway the next day I asked that person but she doesn't remember any dreams for that night. So now I don't know
whether it was a IB or was it a real person or could it be that I have "created" that person in my mind? Any suggestions on what to do in
situations like this? How to make sure what is it (Ok probably if I could see energy then it wouldn't be such a problem)? Thank you for your time.
Another way to look at dreaming together is as sharing a dream. But, here's the thing about dream sharing, it is not merging. So, its either your dream
that is shared or the other person's. With inorganic beings, it is usually the IB's dream that is being shared as it naturally has control over its
own dreaming, but we don't. If you can create a solid dream environment and bring somebody else into it, then you are an accomplished sorcerer. It is
easier for a dreamer to just make a "guest appearance" in somebody else's dream instead. One has to intend to find, but not interrupt the other
person in their dream, and then fit into that dream. If two people are trying to share a dream on purpose, they would first have to decide which of them will
be holding the dream and who will be entering it. There is a natural tendency for people to do one or the other.