05-21-2017, 12:00 AM
Billy, the feminist **** was because JJ chose to assume the position. He becomes most upset when an assertive female presents herself. He favors the sympathetic mother, so I'm trying to help him break the habit by systemically breaking that mold.
He's doing great so far. He's willing to engage the frustration. Now that I'm presenting as condescending he may disengage but that would work too. Discussion is progress via desensitization. Avoidance is progress via fury. If he gives up then he loses. Any outcome is satisfying....progress or a loss. I win with either. He wins with progress.
Billy. I have missed you. Don't do that again.
He's doing great so far. He's willing to engage the frustration. Now that I'm presenting as condescending he may disengage but that would work too. Discussion is progress via desensitization. Avoidance is progress via fury. If he gives up then he loses. Any outcome is satisfying....progress or a loss. I win with either. He wins with progress.
Billy. I have missed you. Don't do that again.