05-21-2017, 12:00 AM
Kao13 wrote:Billy, the feminist **** was because JJ chose to assume the position. He becomes most upset when an assertive female presents herself. He favors the sympathetic mother, so I'm trying to help him break the habit by systemically breaking that mold. Yadda yadda.
He's doing great so far. He's willing to engage the frustration. Now that I'm presenting as condescending he may disengage but that would work too. Discussion is progress via desensitization. Avoidance is progress via fury. If he gives up then he loses. Any outcome is satisfying....progress or a loss. I win with either. He wins with progress. So I must keep replying to your nonsense or I lose? Hmmm.... well that sounds legit, but originally I decided to come into this thread to see if I could get rosy to question his assumption that patriarchy exists, by teaching him the difference between the people in charge being male and thus giving other males advantages, (which would be patriarchy), and the people in charge being male and not giving a f*ck about other males, (which is a type of oligarchy). I think he learned it. Billy's reply on the other hand about how gorillas always have a male in charge and thus their society is patriarchal humorously shows the bottom of the intellectual barrel for reading comprehension on his part. Still he didn't start randomly accusing me of hating vaginas and encouraging me to hate them more, so maybe he wasn't the bottom of the barrel after all.
He's doing great so far. He's willing to engage the frustration. Now that I'm presenting as condescending he may disengage but that would work too. Discussion is progress via desensitization. Avoidance is progress via fury. If he gives up then he loses. Any outcome is satisfying....progress or a loss. I win with either. He wins with progress. So I must keep replying to your nonsense or I lose? Hmmm.... well that sounds legit, but originally I decided to come into this thread to see if I could get rosy to question his assumption that patriarchy exists, by teaching him the difference between the people in charge being male and thus giving other males advantages, (which would be patriarchy), and the people in charge being male and not giving a f*ck about other males, (which is a type of oligarchy). I think he learned it. Billy's reply on the other hand about how gorillas always have a male in charge and thus their society is patriarchal humorously shows the bottom of the intellectual barrel for reading comprehension on his part. Still he didn't start randomly accusing me of hating vaginas and encouraging me to hate them more, so maybe he wasn't the bottom of the barrel after all.