01-05-2015, 12:00 AM
the no fap part is clear, just was not sure how that ideology/method is to impact or reflect on sex with a partner..
I am still in observation mode on all these sexual things. Say now I notice stuff differently than I did when I started to be sexually active, so it is a thing in progress and surely will be for a while yet. I do not see energy to check what exactly is happening. I did not notice an energy drain with partners feeling wise (unless it was linked to some other things, emotions due to the relationship and such), but I get into the partner mode also when I am in a certain setting. I notice I enter a form of dreaming when touching my partner and moving into making love/sex my ID goes silent. It is sometimes actually hard to start talking again after. One might therefore say that too much sex can hinder talking/communication between partners
I can surely say that interesting things of a non-usual nature can happen during days of sex too.. so at least I can say that sex does not hinder stuff specifically (or altogether), and it (finding an interesting partner) may trigger stuff too (for example creativity, which is also linked with having energy).
Once, some years back, I think sex actually helped stabilize me, cause I might have just had a bit too much of who knows what - I was on this island and had so much energy I almost did not sleep for a couple weeks while still very alert, focused and not tired (but feeling like an alien due to it haha). I think the sex helped balance me (at least I had some 4hrs sleep then). In this sense then there is some energy moving around during sex and if some went puff then on this occasion that helped me, cause I was on overdrive . I had a great experience with nature and my surroundings during this time, the island was really magical for me in this sense. That was interesting to observe also in link with the effect of sex, but it might be I'd have stabilized naturally anyway, maybe it was not as linked with the sex as it might seem.. hard to know when it was just this island time experience.
Other than that I did not notice too much yet. Being celibate for many years, I did not have too much opportunity either . But I plan to put some focus on this as I am curious..
I do not find it hard to be celibate or sexually active, in this sense I think guys have it harder and I sympathize .
There surely is not such a big drain for women after an orgasm as can be observed in guys who ejaculate. Maybe it is like when a guy learns to not ejaculate.. which is not that hard all in all, so I wonder why guys just do not forgo the ejaculation.. I have not had a squirting orgasm, so I wonder if that also drains a girl as it does a guy when he ejaculates (would make some sense..).
The thing that I would want to observe what concerns women though is this line that the guys get on their sexual female partner.. as I understood that women provide a kind of energy source/link to their partners. This then is not a thing of only the sexual act itself, but an after effect that the guy comes back for over and over. And it might also not be so great for the guys, even if it looks like a freebie 'drink'. These are things I would like to understand better.. Did you notice anything of this sort happening during sex with women?
I am still in observation mode on all these sexual things. Say now I notice stuff differently than I did when I started to be sexually active, so it is a thing in progress and surely will be for a while yet. I do not see energy to check what exactly is happening. I did not notice an energy drain with partners feeling wise (unless it was linked to some other things, emotions due to the relationship and such), but I get into the partner mode also when I am in a certain setting. I notice I enter a form of dreaming when touching my partner and moving into making love/sex my ID goes silent. It is sometimes actually hard to start talking again after. One might therefore say that too much sex can hinder talking/communication between partners
I can surely say that interesting things of a non-usual nature can happen during days of sex too.. so at least I can say that sex does not hinder stuff specifically (or altogether), and it (finding an interesting partner) may trigger stuff too (for example creativity, which is also linked with having energy).
Once, some years back, I think sex actually helped stabilize me, cause I might have just had a bit too much of who knows what - I was on this island and had so much energy I almost did not sleep for a couple weeks while still very alert, focused and not tired (but feeling like an alien due to it haha). I think the sex helped balance me (at least I had some 4hrs sleep then). In this sense then there is some energy moving around during sex and if some went puff then on this occasion that helped me, cause I was on overdrive . I had a great experience with nature and my surroundings during this time, the island was really magical for me in this sense. That was interesting to observe also in link with the effect of sex, but it might be I'd have stabilized naturally anyway, maybe it was not as linked with the sex as it might seem.. hard to know when it was just this island time experience.
Other than that I did not notice too much yet. Being celibate for many years, I did not have too much opportunity either . But I plan to put some focus on this as I am curious..
I do not find it hard to be celibate or sexually active, in this sense I think guys have it harder and I sympathize .
There surely is not such a big drain for women after an orgasm as can be observed in guys who ejaculate. Maybe it is like when a guy learns to not ejaculate.. which is not that hard all in all, so I wonder why guys just do not forgo the ejaculation.. I have not had a squirting orgasm, so I wonder if that also drains a girl as it does a guy when he ejaculates (would make some sense..).
The thing that I would want to observe what concerns women though is this line that the guys get on their sexual female partner.. as I understood that women provide a kind of energy source/link to their partners. This then is not a thing of only the sexual act itself, but an after effect that the guy comes back for over and over. And it might also not be so great for the guys, even if it looks like a freebie 'drink'. These are things I would like to understand better.. Did you notice anything of this sort happening during sex with women?