01-05-2015, 12:00 AM
" Did you notice anything of this sort happening during sex with women?"
The supposed 'energetic worm'?
Well, unfortunately I have NO first hand experience with this and almost no sexual experience with women I have to admit. It's almost all been with men.
I like to joke about this and say 'I'm not gay at all, I just love big hard throbbing cock!" to try to dodge the label and all the horsehit that comes with it, since I have been more or less quiet or closet about this for years and years, only just lately realizing that there are a LOT of other guys just like me who you may not find in any gay bar or online dating site, but are still all around in great numbers.
I will say though, YES there is a definite imprint left by ejaculating inside someone, no doubt about it. And I've been in either roles with long term partners and I know what it feels like. In the 'top' role, in the past at least, I felt like I was in charge, that ass belonged to me - was my right to it, I 'possessed it'. But that attitude was certainly not without its problems.
In the other role, I felt like I was the one that should be 'taken care of', and at least in one case with one partner it was a boost, but over time it became like a shot of morphine. I had to heavily recapitulate or take back energy from both experiences...especially the last one.
If and when I find a new long term partner I would prefer things be very different as far as both of us keeping our energy, and not requiring the other to give theirs up. Because that's how it was in the past ,"I'll give you mine, and you give me yours." Or "You belong to me and I belong to you."
Now maybe for women it is similar - depends on that attitude of the partner, and what you would allow them to think about you.
" I notice I enter a form of dreaming when touching my partner and moving into making love/sex my ID goes silent. It is sometimes actually hard to start talking again after. One might therefore say that too much sex can hinder talking/communication between partners "
I've experienced something like this too. Not often, but have...you can definitely go to a state of heightened awareness. I think women are better at this than men. Men can do it though. If they don't ejaculate they can stay in that state for hours...smiling.
The supposed 'energetic worm'?
Well, unfortunately I have NO first hand experience with this and almost no sexual experience with women I have to admit. It's almost all been with men.
I like to joke about this and say 'I'm not gay at all, I just love big hard throbbing cock!" to try to dodge the label and all the horsehit that comes with it, since I have been more or less quiet or closet about this for years and years, only just lately realizing that there are a LOT of other guys just like me who you may not find in any gay bar or online dating site, but are still all around in great numbers.
I will say though, YES there is a definite imprint left by ejaculating inside someone, no doubt about it. And I've been in either roles with long term partners and I know what it feels like. In the 'top' role, in the past at least, I felt like I was in charge, that ass belonged to me - was my right to it, I 'possessed it'. But that attitude was certainly not without its problems.
In the other role, I felt like I was the one that should be 'taken care of', and at least in one case with one partner it was a boost, but over time it became like a shot of morphine. I had to heavily recapitulate or take back energy from both experiences...especially the last one.
If and when I find a new long term partner I would prefer things be very different as far as both of us keeping our energy, and not requiring the other to give theirs up. Because that's how it was in the past ,"I'll give you mine, and you give me yours." Or "You belong to me and I belong to you."
Now maybe for women it is similar - depends on that attitude of the partner, and what you would allow them to think about you.
" I notice I enter a form of dreaming when touching my partner and moving into making love/sex my ID goes silent. It is sometimes actually hard to start talking again after. One might therefore say that too much sex can hinder talking/communication between partners "
I've experienced something like this too. Not often, but have...you can definitely go to a state of heightened awareness. I think women are better at this than men. Men can do it though. If they don't ejaculate they can stay in that state for hours...smiling.