03-19-2011, 12:01 AM
alien wrote:
Enchantra wrote:
Where was the impeccability?
alien you make a few good points here and I want to point out that a lot of what 'stalkers' of others do, is very closely aligned with what 'stalkers' the illegal kind do, in manner, action and excuses, and is also similar to abusers. "To help you see." "For your own good" etc. All very psychologically manipulative sentences.
In my own life, I am often in the position of having to go into a dangerous area of Los Angeles in association with our business. When doing so, I occasionally dress down and walk with a slight limp, even though there is nothing wrong with my leg. The "stalking" is that I then "blend in" with the local element, and am not seen as a threat. In reality, the "identity" of homeless-street-person is obviously not who I am, but putting myself in that position and assuming that mindset shifts the AP to such an extent that not only does the persona provide camouflage, it also enables me to *see* the world through entirely different eyes, learning a bit more about who I am, and who I'm not.
Good example!
Enchantra wrote:
Where was the impeccability?
alien you make a few good points here and I want to point out that a lot of what 'stalkers' of others do, is very closely aligned with what 'stalkers' the illegal kind do, in manner, action and excuses, and is also similar to abusers. "To help you see." "For your own good" etc. All very psychologically manipulative sentences.
In my own life, I am often in the position of having to go into a dangerous area of Los Angeles in association with our business. When doing so, I occasionally dress down and walk with a slight limp, even though there is nothing wrong with my leg. The "stalking" is that I then "blend in" with the local element, and am not seen as a threat. In reality, the "identity" of homeless-street-person is obviously not who I am, but putting myself in that position and assuming that mindset shifts the AP to such an extent that not only does the persona provide camouflage, it also enables me to *see* the world through entirely different eyes, learning a bit more about who I am, and who I'm not.
Good example!