08-09-2011, 12:00 AM
To make things clearer, the smile I gave was one of appreciation for what you said and a laugh at your humorous description of some internet discussions only I imagine our ape ancestors got over their chest beating sessions quicker than we do, something about domestication + identifying with an identity turns natural regulating mechanisms into overblown and often way more dangerous dramas. Also, when I think about my death I know I will be most grateful for all the smiles I have seen and/or received and won't give a lick for a hundred pieces of paper or one piece of paper called one hundred. You may or may not agree with me in that regard.
I see the potential for sites such as this to become hosts of Magick and spaces of love but I think in order to do so more successfully more people would need to accept the fact that likelier than not they have some tonal flaws as do others and be a little more giving when it comes to forgiveness and foregoing of perceived insults. ignorance, and other such apparent flaws. I can tell you that once you have been perceived to "****" by key persons on sites like this it can be hard to come back to them in a real and meaningful way after having become pigeon holed. If you can't give another person the open space to transform then you probably aren't giving yourself that space either.
So that would be one advice towards making the site more conducive of transformation and magic in a meaningful way.
I also want to note that I am not claiming that I am above the chest beating dramas though I am finding after taking breaks from sites like this for a bit and recapping my time at them I am more unattached and ready to see what happens.
I see the potential for sites such as this to become hosts of Magick and spaces of love but I think in order to do so more successfully more people would need to accept the fact that likelier than not they have some tonal flaws as do others and be a little more giving when it comes to forgiveness and foregoing of perceived insults. ignorance, and other such apparent flaws. I can tell you that once you have been perceived to "****" by key persons on sites like this it can be hard to come back to them in a real and meaningful way after having become pigeon holed. If you can't give another person the open space to transform then you probably aren't giving yourself that space either.
So that would be one advice towards making the site more conducive of transformation and magic in a meaningful way.
I also want to note that I am not claiming that I am above the chest beating dramas though I am finding after taking breaks from sites like this for a bit and recapping my time at them I am more unattached and ready to see what happens.