02-07-2007, 12:00 AM
The sad side of blaming is the fact that it means they can't take responsibilities.
Some misconceptions can trigger bad events like a breakup. My brother's been silent for a few days now with his gf and made her think that he doesn't care for her anymore. Maybe it's because he thinks that time will heal the relationship but in reality, it renders their relationship stale and doesn't fix anything. Sometimes action is needed. The objective isn't met without knowing the reason why. In this case, it's because he was and still is an ****. The reason being he's an **** is because they broke up because he didn't care to go to school while his gf was sacrificing her time for her. Paying up his debts for him, lying to my mom that he's going to school and working to pay for rent all the time. At the moment, my brother doesn't want to go to school and asked me earlier to go to work for him instead. The only solution for him is to take responsibility for his own mess. He's messed up. He needs to be responsible for his own self instead of feeling sorry for what he didn't do.
I heard recently that it's better to regret things you did rather than things you didn't do. I couldn't agree more when it comes to this situation they're in. I happen to have to witness it first hand. And personally, I think it was a stupid reason in the first place for them to be in this dump. All he needed to do is sacrifice a little bit of his time for her.
Some misconceptions can trigger bad events like a breakup. My brother's been silent for a few days now with his gf and made her think that he doesn't care for her anymore. Maybe it's because he thinks that time will heal the relationship but in reality, it renders their relationship stale and doesn't fix anything. Sometimes action is needed. The objective isn't met without knowing the reason why. In this case, it's because he was and still is an ****. The reason being he's an **** is because they broke up because he didn't care to go to school while his gf was sacrificing her time for her. Paying up his debts for him, lying to my mom that he's going to school and working to pay for rent all the time. At the moment, my brother doesn't want to go to school and asked me earlier to go to work for him instead. The only solution for him is to take responsibility for his own mess. He's messed up. He needs to be responsible for his own self instead of feeling sorry for what he didn't do.
I heard recently that it's better to regret things you did rather than things you didn't do. I couldn't agree more when it comes to this situation they're in. I happen to have to witness it first hand. And personally, I think it was a stupid reason in the first place for them to be in this dump. All he needed to do is sacrifice a little bit of his time for her.