06-04-2017, 12:00 AM
Julio Juliopolis wrote:Recently a couple of generous members of this site have enthusiastically volunteered to help me by stalking me on a few things that tend to trouble me soon. To prepare for the events, I thought I'd look around in here to help me understand what I should be doing during them. While there's obviously a lot of information here about stalking, the stuff I've found tends to be written purely from the perspective of the would be stalker. As I think that the stalked has just as important of a role to play in the process, if not a more important one, I'm hoping to use this thread to generate ideas and suggestions about how best to be stalked. What techniques to use, what to avoid, and anything else of that nature. Also, any examples of a stalk in which you feel you benefitted greatly by or thought someone else handled well as a stalkee would be appreciated.
When I'm stalked, I love it when people do it with love and are detail-oriented. Dedication to the task is shown via energy, engagement, and entertainment. The best stalk I've ever seen was someone who never tried to deceive me. Imagine that, stalking someone without any deception; only love. She was the most beautiful mind I had ever set my eyes on--and I gave her to the only person who deserved her. The difference between like and love is this:
When I like a flower, I pluck it.
When I love a flower, I water it.
You did well being stalked, JJ. Excellent. I failed the same stalk you failed, so I'm no better than you. It's okay, the love game always gets people. It's why I crossed over to the light side; they still had beer and the better game. Instead of hating them, I joined them. It made all the difference.
When I'm stalked, I love it when people do it with love and are detail-oriented. Dedication to the task is shown via energy, engagement, and entertainment. The best stalk I've ever seen was someone who never tried to deceive me. Imagine that, stalking someone without any deception; only love. She was the most beautiful mind I had ever set my eyes on--and I gave her to the only person who deserved her. The difference between like and love is this:
When I like a flower, I pluck it.
When I love a flower, I water it.
You did well being stalked, JJ. Excellent. I failed the same stalk you failed, so I'm no better than you. It's okay, the love game always gets people. It's why I crossed over to the light side; they still had beer and the better game. Instead of hating them, I joined them. It made all the difference.