03-12-2011, 12:00 AM
datura8 wrote:
I have to disagree. On this thread numerous quotes were posted from CC that stalking is primarily for the self. It can be done but it takes one being very objective. But I also disagree with En on stalking others. We most certainly can stalk others. However, I find usually such tactics to be a ruse and can be abusive to the other person. It can also be a way for an individual to avoid their own self, and what they need to work on, by obsessing with what is wrong with another. I don't clearly see what purpose such a thing could serve. Yes, we can aid others. But I find nine out of ten times that stalking others turns into an abuse of others.
That sounds like good observation and conclusion to me, Datura.
I have to disagree. On this thread numerous quotes were posted from CC that stalking is primarily for the self. It can be done but it takes one being very objective. But I also disagree with En on stalking others. We most certainly can stalk others. However, I find usually such tactics to be a ruse and can be abusive to the other person. It can also be a way for an individual to avoid their own self, and what they need to work on, by obsessing with what is wrong with another. I don't clearly see what purpose such a thing could serve. Yes, we can aid others. But I find nine out of ten times that stalking others turns into an abuse of others.
That sounds like good observation and conclusion to me, Datura.