03-17-2011, 12:01 AM
@Dat -
I would say when FW was around, being the person you refer to, she was very effective. In fact, her stalking continues to remain effective because you still react with immediate anger at the mere mention of her. Perhaps you don't see your reaction as being the thing she stalked. That is, have you ever examined why you reacted?
A good analogy of stalking of this sort is fishing. In order to catch the fish, the right bait must be used and patience exercised. FW had an uncanny knack of perceiving which bait would work with which fish. Out of all those she "caught", however, perhaps only two learned anything from the lesson. The remainder, realizing they had been conned, responded only with self-righteous anger and resentment.
I would say when FW was around, being the person you refer to, she was very effective. In fact, her stalking continues to remain effective because you still react with immediate anger at the mere mention of her. Perhaps you don't see your reaction as being the thing she stalked. That is, have you ever examined why you reacted?
A good analogy of stalking of this sort is fishing. In order to catch the fish, the right bait must be used and patience exercised. FW had an uncanny knack of perceiving which bait would work with which fish. Out of all those she "caught", however, perhaps only two learned anything from the lesson. The remainder, realizing they had been conned, responded only with self-righteous anger and resentment.