05-18-2009, 12:01 AM
DoktorGreen wrote:
Hi-
Giving friendship and support without expectation of a return is never a problem. That could be what happens with the neighbor lady.
Sometimes sharing some joy with others releases our own blockages...
Regarding number 3, I'm sure others will chime in, but I make a list of all the most hurtful events and persons in my life. Put them in chronological
order, earliest first. Then recap them until they are nothing but a memory with no emotional charge. I have a method to do this, but there are several out
there and you probably have one. CC gave a fine recapping method.
DG
Well, sometimes they just come or I have purposefully recalled them, pretty sure there are hurtful things I don't remember too and when I was drumming
once some came. So yeah I have a place to start. In which book does the recapping appear? I haven't read them all and the local library has just 2, are
they online for free anywhere? I am poor.
Hi-
Giving friendship and support without expectation of a return is never a problem. That could be what happens with the neighbor lady.
Sometimes sharing some joy with others releases our own blockages...
Regarding number 3, I'm sure others will chime in, but I make a list of all the most hurtful events and persons in my life. Put them in chronological
order, earliest first. Then recap them until they are nothing but a memory with no emotional charge. I have a method to do this, but there are several out
there and you probably have one. CC gave a fine recapping method.
DG
Well, sometimes they just come or I have purposefully recalled them, pretty sure there are hurtful things I don't remember too and when I was drumming
once some came. So yeah I have a place to start. In which book does the recapping appear? I haven't read them all and the local library has just 2, are
they online for free anywhere? I am poor.