08-01-2005, 12:00 AM
Jeric:
If I knew how to start a conversation right, everything by then would go pretty smoothly.
Crow:
Yes, the conversation is just the 'surface' stuff, that's true, Jeric. But you start conversations here just fine. Why would it be any different starting one with a woman who you feel attracted to?
Jeric:
What I meant by projecting your sexual energy is, to show your energy towards her, you know, like if you're full of energy, you can do anything daring.
Crow:
Hmm, and stupid. True, some women are more at ease with stupid men...
But they quickly drop them, mark my words. Loving and being loved is not about 'getting fuc*ked'. And you are just being stupid if you think it is. I don't think you're stupid though, Jeric.
Jeric:
The people with alot of energy are usualy daring.
Crow:
I don't agree. People with energy evidently know how to care for it, and to conserve it, use it wisely.
Jeric:
And if you use your sexual energy, your creative flow might be able to help you. Energy like this comes spontaneously and it just goes in the moment, nothing rehearsed, nothing planned out.
Crow:
This is true enough. Now you're talking 'impeccability'.
Jeric:
But yeah, you can make girls attracted to you.
Crow:
No, not *really*. Are you just wanting to get laid, or are you wanting a loving and enlightening relationship? They're nearly mutually exclusive, in case you didn't know...
Jeric:
Not because of your looks, but because of your actions and words. If you're funny and in control of the situation, that's when you make her feel attracted to you.
Crow:
No. She is not some extension of you. You cannot 'make' her anything. Stop thinking this way. It's much too much about you, nothing about her. This is a grave error, I'm telling you.
Jeric:
That's what I learned from yesterday anyway. And if I chase a girl around, they'll only run away from you lol.
Crow:
That's true, but they don't necessarily run very far, do they?
Jeric:
It's better being persued than persuing, that's where my problem is.
Crow:
It's 'pursue', not 'persue'.
And a man isn't to be pursued. A man stays. A man does his thing, without faltering or running or acting stupid about what he's doing. A man is someone a woman can come to trust. She can't do that if he's horsing around all the time, trying to get attention from her. No, He must give *her* attention, and of the best sort, and she will know it when he does.
Jeric:
Girls usualy want to be persued.
Crow:
Girls want to be cared for decently.
koomw:
I can enter a persuading mode. All i have to do is fall in love with that girl or make myself feel like i did.. My attention is then on her and it does all sorts of fun and **** they like.
Crow:
You like to be a toy?
junior warrior on the path:
Do you practice retaining your sperm?
DO you believe if it comes out you lose your life force.
Crow:
No. It seems natural that it needs to be released. But not every day, five times a day. That's 'obsession' and a bad one.
junior warrior on the path:
Is it better and more fortunate to be a woman?
Crow:
Nah, where do you get such ideas?
It is best to be free. To acknowledge this freedom, and to act on this basis.
My opinion, naturally...
If I knew how to start a conversation right, everything by then would go pretty smoothly.
Crow:
Yes, the conversation is just the 'surface' stuff, that's true, Jeric. But you start conversations here just fine. Why would it be any different starting one with a woman who you feel attracted to?
Jeric:
What I meant by projecting your sexual energy is, to show your energy towards her, you know, like if you're full of energy, you can do anything daring.
Crow:
Hmm, and stupid. True, some women are more at ease with stupid men...
But they quickly drop them, mark my words. Loving and being loved is not about 'getting fuc*ked'. And you are just being stupid if you think it is. I don't think you're stupid though, Jeric.
Jeric:
The people with alot of energy are usualy daring.
Crow:
I don't agree. People with energy evidently know how to care for it, and to conserve it, use it wisely.
Jeric:
And if you use your sexual energy, your creative flow might be able to help you. Energy like this comes spontaneously and it just goes in the moment, nothing rehearsed, nothing planned out.
Crow:
This is true enough. Now you're talking 'impeccability'.
Jeric:
But yeah, you can make girls attracted to you.
Crow:
No, not *really*. Are you just wanting to get laid, or are you wanting a loving and enlightening relationship? They're nearly mutually exclusive, in case you didn't know...
Jeric:
Not because of your looks, but because of your actions and words. If you're funny and in control of the situation, that's when you make her feel attracted to you.
Crow:
No. She is not some extension of you. You cannot 'make' her anything. Stop thinking this way. It's much too much about you, nothing about her. This is a grave error, I'm telling you.
Jeric:
That's what I learned from yesterday anyway. And if I chase a girl around, they'll only run away from you lol.
Crow:
That's true, but they don't necessarily run very far, do they?
Jeric:
It's better being persued than persuing, that's where my problem is.
Crow:
It's 'pursue', not 'persue'.
And a man isn't to be pursued. A man stays. A man does his thing, without faltering or running or acting stupid about what he's doing. A man is someone a woman can come to trust. She can't do that if he's horsing around all the time, trying to get attention from her. No, He must give *her* attention, and of the best sort, and she will know it when he does.
Jeric:
Girls usualy want to be persued.
Crow:
Girls want to be cared for decently.
koomw:
I can enter a persuading mode. All i have to do is fall in love with that girl or make myself feel like i did.. My attention is then on her and it does all sorts of fun and **** they like.
Crow:
You like to be a toy?
junior warrior on the path:
Do you practice retaining your sperm?
DO you believe if it comes out you lose your life force.
Crow:
No. It seems natural that it needs to be released. But not every day, five times a day. That's 'obsession' and a bad one.
junior warrior on the path:
Is it better and more fortunate to be a woman?
Crow:
Nah, where do you get such ideas?
It is best to be free. To acknowledge this freedom, and to act on this basis.
My opinion, naturally...