On wife stalked as petty tyrant - the killer of selfimportance

[Mornings Son]

Zen master Shodo Harada once gave this advice to a
German guy about his difficulties with his wife. 'Your wife is your best
zen master.'
I like to see my self as young arrogant Juan
Matus in Don Julians house - when he is to be through out if he
upset any one of the womens in the house again.
Does it hurt my ego? oh yes!!!!
But it help me reach my path with Heart