06-13-2017, 12:00 AM
I'm kinda unsatisfied not just because of the reason I wrote about but also because JJ actually said some nice things and my focus is on the one or two lines that I did not find nice. I want to support JJ and whatever it is he is reaching out to for himself. Hence: "May your splitting be all that you wish for ."
I understand he said 'more' as in 'more limited ways of self-expression healthier'... the problem is: more limited than what? a psychic breakdown? Well, gee, I wonder why someone might find more 'limited' ways better .
The part of his post addressed to me just does not make much sense to me. On more levels. Hence I declined to answer. Me and him, we are fine with that. I'd say he understood what my issue was. So the previous post was not very necessary for JJ. But with billy saying he likes what JJ is doing... that felt to me like something I should respond to because I do not want any misconceptions about the part I dislike that JJ is doing. Plus the problem with a public place you never know what people understand in the end, it's best to be clear.
Billy, I do not know if I am fair to JJ. There is one aspect in which I am less fair. But I can say this to JJ because he is closer to me and because my demand on him is higher than on most people (as he seems to have a better grip on himself rationally than most people and works on himself) and because he should represent the site here. Plus his previous behavior and comments have shown and indicated he is OK to have things pointed out. I wish for all of the people working on things in private to be as impeccable and aware as possible. It would be detrimental for the group to go through stuff like this in the private areas where we are dealing with much finer material and where it would be quite a bump on the road and detrimental to our intents (it was already a bump here, there it would be more like a giant boulder). I want people to be more aware of what they affect with their words and actions. In general, I do not think it is my place to educate people. Nor do I want to do that here. I will, however, push for the place outlined in our Rules and Guidelines. I am looking forward to seeing your intelligent sobriety around here.
I understand he said 'more' as in 'more limited ways of self-expression healthier'... the problem is: more limited than what? a psychic breakdown? Well, gee, I wonder why someone might find more 'limited' ways better .
The part of his post addressed to me just does not make much sense to me. On more levels. Hence I declined to answer. Me and him, we are fine with that. I'd say he understood what my issue was. So the previous post was not very necessary for JJ. But with billy saying he likes what JJ is doing... that felt to me like something I should respond to because I do not want any misconceptions about the part I dislike that JJ is doing. Plus the problem with a public place you never know what people understand in the end, it's best to be clear.
Billy, I do not know if I am fair to JJ. There is one aspect in which I am less fair. But I can say this to JJ because he is closer to me and because my demand on him is higher than on most people (as he seems to have a better grip on himself rationally than most people and works on himself) and because he should represent the site here. Plus his previous behavior and comments have shown and indicated he is OK to have things pointed out. I wish for all of the people working on things in private to be as impeccable and aware as possible. It would be detrimental for the group to go through stuff like this in the private areas where we are dealing with much finer material and where it would be quite a bump on the road and detrimental to our intents (it was already a bump here, there it would be more like a giant boulder). I want people to be more aware of what they affect with their words and actions. In general, I do not think it is my place to educate people. Nor do I want to do that here. I will, however, push for the place outlined in our Rules and Guidelines. I am looking forward to seeing your intelligent sobriety around here.