07-20-2018, 12:00 AM
To be clear, I'm not a fan of people fixing people. I'm a fan of people fixing themselves. Sometimes people can help people fix themselves and I feel like that's acceptable.
It's a struggle letting go of authentic people. Fake is easy to forget. Authentic people leave a mark. We love them. That's ok. They might leave us. That's ok too. It's still ok to love them. Unconditional love works like that. It's ok to give love to people who are hard to love. Our love doesn't make them a better person, but it makes us a better person. Giving love heals ourselves because we are vibrating that energy. Forgiveness works that way too. One doesn't forgive as a gift for the wrong doer. One forgives to release the inner tension.
Loving and forgiving idiots doesn't mean we let them abuse or manipulate us. I still whack them away when necessary. It just means you do you. You don't do them.
Maybe you agree with their vegetarian ways, but you hate the fact that they don't wash their butt. It means you could learn some good recipes from them but you probably don't want to share clothes with them. People are complex. Use what's beneficial and steer clear of what's not.
Life tips I guess.
And mermaids. Interspecies romance. Girl with girl. Is it still potential beastiality or am I doing sexuality wrong? Why does this make sense to me? Why am I moved by this? I'm reacting to something in the emotions brought up in this. I relate.
So I share. Because it matters to me. Because why not. It's ok to have emotions. To feel sadness and regret. To feel loss.
Because that's how I feel and I'm glad I can feel. I also feel joy and excitement for other reasons. Like whew, so glad the mermaid didn't die. That would've sucked. So glad the human was kind enough to carry the fish girl.
I also feel curious. If the tail were to be cut open does the mermaid taste like legit sushi? How did she become a magical fish of the sea? Can that process be repeated so that the human can be like her?
If so, is that ethical?
The Shape of Water touches on this. Amazing film too.
Is it too much to ask of someone to be like them when they are a different species? Weird curiosity since it's all fictional, but ... hypothetically, what's the appropriate behavior?
The Shape of Water did turn the woman into a fish. Because she was dying. Sorry, spoiler alert.
The music video doesn't. Because it's a music video. It would be weird with such a short build up.
So. Yeah.
Unconditional love is ok. Feel it. Share it if you want. Don't regret loving. I've never regretted loving any of the weirdos in my life. The love is still there. I just hide the really meaningful love behind my heart of stone when I don't want anyone to touch it xP
It's a struggle letting go of authentic people. Fake is easy to forget. Authentic people leave a mark. We love them. That's ok. They might leave us. That's ok too. It's still ok to love them. Unconditional love works like that. It's ok to give love to people who are hard to love. Our love doesn't make them a better person, but it makes us a better person. Giving love heals ourselves because we are vibrating that energy. Forgiveness works that way too. One doesn't forgive as a gift for the wrong doer. One forgives to release the inner tension.
Loving and forgiving idiots doesn't mean we let them abuse or manipulate us. I still whack them away when necessary. It just means you do you. You don't do them.
Maybe you agree with their vegetarian ways, but you hate the fact that they don't wash their butt. It means you could learn some good recipes from them but you probably don't want to share clothes with them. People are complex. Use what's beneficial and steer clear of what's not.
Life tips I guess.
And mermaids. Interspecies romance. Girl with girl. Is it still potential beastiality or am I doing sexuality wrong? Why does this make sense to me? Why am I moved by this? I'm reacting to something in the emotions brought up in this. I relate.
So I share. Because it matters to me. Because why not. It's ok to have emotions. To feel sadness and regret. To feel loss.
Because that's how I feel and I'm glad I can feel. I also feel joy and excitement for other reasons. Like whew, so glad the mermaid didn't die. That would've sucked. So glad the human was kind enough to carry the fish girl.
I also feel curious. If the tail were to be cut open does the mermaid taste like legit sushi? How did she become a magical fish of the sea? Can that process be repeated so that the human can be like her?
If so, is that ethical?
The Shape of Water touches on this. Amazing film too.
Is it too much to ask of someone to be like them when they are a different species? Weird curiosity since it's all fictional, but ... hypothetically, what's the appropriate behavior?
The Shape of Water did turn the woman into a fish. Because she was dying. Sorry, spoiler alert.
The music video doesn't. Because it's a music video. It would be weird with such a short build up.
So. Yeah.
Unconditional love is ok. Feel it. Share it if you want. Don't regret loving. I've never regretted loving any of the weirdos in my life. The love is still there. I just hide the really meaningful love behind my heart of stone when I don't want anyone to touch it xP