01-11-2018, 12:00 AM
I have history with a person whom I wanted to be with but did not respond in the same manner. She was older than me and liked playing games she was having fun. After some time and even a few rejections I actually got the tables turned around and put her in my position.
By saying this I do not mean that forcing love is the way to go nor that I did this and I sure as hell do not support any behaviour like that. I'm saying this because if as you say love is not consensual I do agree that it is a waste of time but if you don't work for love there is no way in hell you're going to receive it. And if someone is initially not interested there is this chance that you can get their attention enough to make what was previously impossible into reality.
It is not about the interpretation of her reply in terms of the lesson but rather what the lesson would be if the interpretation of her reply changed is what I tried to point out. And below my question where I put in the idea of the reply being interpreted more as a test then a simple rejection due to non-mutual interest I wrote the hypothetical lesson.
By saying this I do not mean that forcing love is the way to go nor that I did this and I sure as hell do not support any behaviour like that. I'm saying this because if as you say love is not consensual I do agree that it is a waste of time but if you don't work for love there is no way in hell you're going to receive it. And if someone is initially not interested there is this chance that you can get their attention enough to make what was previously impossible into reality.
It is not about the interpretation of her reply in terms of the lesson but rather what the lesson would be if the interpretation of her reply changed is what I tried to point out. And below my question where I put in the idea of the reply being interpreted more as a test then a simple rejection due to non-mutual interest I wrote the hypothetical lesson.