01-11-2018, 12:00 AM
funnyguy wrote:
All I'm saying is one shouldn't give up on his dream be it a certain woman or achievement of any sort.
I get that. If it's not a negative situation, one could pursue something that is not yet manifest. That is how dream building occurs and goes with the saying: aim for the moon if you miss then you'll land among the stars.
The scientist in me says that it's a waste of time to use that approach for romance. An achievement goal seems more worthy of such attention. It's not bad to pursue someone outside of one's league. It's merely foolish. That time and energy can be better spent elsewhere.
All I'm saying is one shouldn't give up on his dream be it a certain woman or achievement of any sort.
I get that. If it's not a negative situation, one could pursue something that is not yet manifest. That is how dream building occurs and goes with the saying: aim for the moon if you miss then you'll land among the stars.
The scientist in me says that it's a waste of time to use that approach for romance. An achievement goal seems more worthy of such attention. It's not bad to pursue someone outside of one's league. It's merely foolish. That time and energy can be better spent elsewhere.