Professional standards and ethics

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Pixie Dust wrote:I like this.  Yeah, it's tough having to make these sorts of decisions.  Ideally, I just hope the other person understands without having to explain it.  That's more laziness on my end as I'm willing to DO things, but I'm not particularly fond of explaining what I'm doing.  That's the snob in me.  "Why I gotta explain if I'm helping someone?"  That sort of attitude and arrogance.  It makes sense to me, so it should be clear as day to everyone else lol.  Recently, I came to the realization that just because I make sense to me doesn't mean I'll make sense to others.  

I like how you moved in relation to your shaman.  I like that someone else thinks about these things too.  

Yep, same here, I too hope it is understood without having to explain. I hope there is no need to explain. That is best. But most people are not mind readers. Maybe the shaman, given her level of awareness and comprehension was aware of my actions and intents, but maybe she was not and thought what an impolite girl I am . Would that be her fault? I mean it did all happen in a matter of 2 seconds. One fleeting moment in life... 
I am not confident I would be able to understand little things like this in always perfect/true ways. I need explanations too... especially when it links to some of the stuff the shaman does haha. But yea, I don't always get explanations and I have had to learn to get into a state of mind where that does not matter. It is sometimes really really hard though .