So the nerd in me has a few things to share too.
First, I'll assume Rosy was addressing me indirectly by a HAP I sometimes utilize. That's about the extent that his singing might be relevant to me personally.
Second, if he was communicating to MY HAP then lol, that's adorable. Very few speak to my HAP, so that is admirably impersonal. I love that.
Third, he was communicating that he missed me (he missed my HAP). He gave enough of a sh*t about my HAP to make a song and f*cking sang it for everyone! Omfg. Color me flattered. Along the way, I somehow imparted a meaningful exchange with him, enough to warrant frustration and a need to share and communicate.
Fourth, this is a great exercise in understanding different communication styles. Everyone perceives exchanges through their own lens. It's my hope (for humanity) that we communicate sacredness. That we build it, share it and spread it. Rosy was sharing sacredness with me. He let me know he misses me and doesn't like my unpredictability. To me, this is sacred.
Fifth, from a site perspective you should address the video if others have failed to do so. You gently scolded Rosy and considered moderating his behavior. You can rule in that manner, but there's another way too. Ask probing questions and direct the conversation into the realm of sacredness. Like, I see that video and see the frustration. I understand where it's coming from. I can be damn frustrating, fo sure. This is why i said kind things about him, to balance the exchange. Unfortunately, not everyone sees with those eyes. Some need help with interpretation and require more explanation. That's where you come in. You address behavior by an insightful line of questioning to foster sacred communication. Punishment and control is one way of doing things, but it's not sacred. Fostering a sense of understanding is sacred.
Think of prisons. In America we're @ssholes and toss people into prison without much rehabilitation. When they are released they often experience a revolving door where they return to prison. In other countries, like Norway, they rehabilitate their prisoners and teach them how to live better so that they have the skills to do better when they are released. It's a totally different mindset. America wants to punish. Norway wants to rehabilitate. Each method teaches different things and repeated with millions can manifest largely different outcomes.
Choose your method and you'll align with those who think similarly