01-12-2018, 12:00 AM
I am curious how do you make important decisions in your life?
For example I have a friend who prior to making a choice that will have a huge impact on his life makes two lists one with the positive impacts that it might have and the negative taking into account as many details as possible. Then uses the factor of outweighing the negative with positive otherwise the choice will not pass.
Another friend has a following of a few thousand people on the internet and he did actually make a post to ask them on feedback for his choice and see other perspectives before making his decision.
I tend to keep the choice in my attention and see how I feel about the decision and if I will be happy to go through the hardships of the path to come with the fire inside burning kind of like asking myself if the path has a heart and trying to see if I will rejoice after my choice.
How do you make up your mind about a big change? It can be cool to get into the small daily choices we make as well.
For example I have a friend who prior to making a choice that will have a huge impact on his life makes two lists one with the positive impacts that it might have and the negative taking into account as many details as possible. Then uses the factor of outweighing the negative with positive otherwise the choice will not pass.
Another friend has a following of a few thousand people on the internet and he did actually make a post to ask them on feedback for his choice and see other perspectives before making his decision.
I tend to keep the choice in my attention and see how I feel about the decision and if I will be happy to go through the hardships of the path to come with the fire inside burning kind of like asking myself if the path has a heart and trying to see if I will rejoice after my choice.
How do you make up your mind about a big change? It can be cool to get into the small daily choices we make as well.