The Art of Do

[Billy]

serloco wrote:

No, billy the art of do, or doing, not doing your wife, nor the art of doo-doo.
 
Jeez serloco.. I never took you for one as being overly clever with words  Good connecting

[serloco]

There is a lot you don't know about me. Much you haven't seen.

[serloco]

You have be conscious of your awareness of everything including trying. TO try is not anything wrong nor bad. Sure you either will or will not but do you know before hand what the outcome will be? Trying is just that, it is trying. You don't know if you will or will not succeed. Seeing can tell you if you will or will not, and examining your body of the action will also show you if you can or can not. It draws from your awareness of the action. COntrolling the awareness of action is the key. Definition is tied to perception. YOu intend your action, incuding the act of trying. If it is something you call hard, or difficult then you dont know if you can or can not. Yet. Practice does make perfect and trying to do something can lead, WILL LEAD to your goal. SOmetimes you have to build the way. I used to never try anything and always would do. It was powerful but things I knew I couldnt do yet I never tried. I always said later I will have enough personal power to succeed. So I intended success but at a later date. I like to do things perfectly. I found that relying on my seeing to do a feat of power was silly. It made me not try to do things. Trying was cursed in my tonal. Like yoda said you do or do not and that is the action. It was binding. SO was personal power telling me what I can and cant do. I learned to intend can do, overtop of any cant i had. Awareness of you action and your tries can dictate what will happen. I remember playing basketball and never missing a shot for hours because my actions were drawn, connected, to my consciousness. I could just think the ball were curse to the net if i am off, and then do the action. You can tel your body and reality what your action will do. But trying is not something bad, and you do not need to intend failure because you are trying. You can not know, and you can think it out as you go. Sure, never intend failure. That was my way. Never fail at important things. I dont believe anything telling me that I cant. I imagine the best action, I think it out, and then my body just does it, in the way I have set. Again controlling the awareness of your actions does dictate what action you are performing. It simple. I suggest letting tries be a good thing on the road to success. Afterall some things must be learned and built. One success out does a thousand failures. Once you know you can then you can know. Sure, you can act without thought and just do it. The position of Do is great. You can do anything. A quick and easy action. BAM.

[serloco]

just conceive of what you are doing before and as you do it, you will draw a connection from your mind and/to your actions, your mind controlling the action. Imagine.

[serloco]

[Billy]

serloco wrote:You have to be conscious of your awareness...  then my body just does it, in the way I have set. Again controlling the awareness of your actions does... It simple...Once you know you can then you can know... you can act without thought and just do it. The position of Do is great. You can do anything. A quick and easy action. BAM.
 
The composition of my ability to TELL a reality, is very much a physical bodily awareness that projects the supporting emanation.  The manifestation I want will absolutely 100% occur when I do TELL from this bodily position or specialized attention.
   This is why Kaomea will understand the power of my desire to please her.  God, did she ever get inside my head.

[Billy]

The Art of Do
    Sub-category
    The Art of eating Ass

 God forbid that this concerns other than males or females going down on female human ass. lol

    A captivating human sexual act derives acutely from sight, sound, touch, smell, and TASTE.   The cerebral signals thereof are to make for a single consuming desire.  In a true sense and in every manner, I want to EAT [or be eaten by] the woman I love .  I want to make biology's foundational four F's (Fight, Flight, Food, ***) cogent to her.  There is to be no mistaking I am TAKING, and that the choice to flee (do other than as I do) has been TAKEN.  Survival instinct at the root of consciousness has to become operative for primative, passionate sex.  [This dynamic is not evolutionarily restrictive either.  In fact, Susan lustfully chewed me into rosygyro's idea of bolus when I first dated her]
   

    Gettin' back to the Food and *** part of eating ass:

   I want to be helpful by setting the environs here for the uneducated.  Super sex happens between the ears when inappropriate, unacceptable societal behavior (TABOO) is snottily disregarded, yet irreverently kept in play by remembering.  If sex is not filthy dirty, disgustingly wrong xD, and obscene [even to one's self/lol] it will not ever transcend to super duper sex.  Hey, I don't want to just do disgusting stuff..  I want to KNOW I am doing it, and I want a partner who is become aware and complicit in the act.

   Now, for sure you don't ask or tell her the first time you are going to eat her ass.  And, at the last, you never want to make someone do something they don't want, so you need to prevail early.  Be firm in your intent, and leave no doubt you are going to stay down there [you are TAKING her ass]. (If) When she shows initial inhibition (which is not unlikely considering social conditioning with that private part), there can be no vacillation on your part which would make her more self-conscious than she already is.  Through any initial reticence, you have to get at it like nobody's business.  If she clenches her buttocks, you need at once smack it hard and without self doubt.  This is to communicate she has no choice.  If this has not deterred resistance, it is probably over.. you both lose.
   Look, if you determine that your tongue will be in her ****, then it will be there.

   To simplify this (laying prone with yourself atop), you work from the head down.  Commanding eyes on hers give way to lowering your head below her chin to brief nuzzles of the tits, then steadily to her labia.  I would not meet her anticipation by touching the clit or parting the lips either with tongue or finger; but, you want stay there long enough to arouse her expectations.  Then, she is going to want you to do something.  While cupping your fingers over her labia, move your mouth to the ****.  Perhaps do a couple pecking kisses and a light rimming swirl with finesse, but otherwise there should be no warm-up.  AND, I do the brief pecks and rimming to invite her bodily reaction (if not reluctance).  This accentuates for your partner the condition that you intend to own her ass, whence you invade.  It is an  erotic, primal, evolutionary wonder to be TAKEN without permission, and without recourse.

   As I imply, quite immediately your tongue is to penetrate her ****.  Do this deeply and with such conviction that she believes you may very well crawl up her ****.  Now, there is going to be some real fun in how you bring order (and disorder) to her life.  Before I get into details, at some point well underway and with utmost confidence, take your tongue away from her.  Such will bring her momentary confusion/intrigue.  Grab a cushion or pillow, have her pick up her bottom, and raise up her ass.  Now you can eat proficiently, at times pulling her cheeks apart to go deeper.  
  Know that your partner wants to let go, but also recognize humans are frought with inhibitions.  It is paramount whenever your partner would show qualm or exhibit hesitancy, that you respond with a strong counter measure.  Let her know resolutely that resistance to your advances in whatever shape or form are NOT acceptable to you.  I mean, her surrender that follows, and the upside differences at the next level of her enjoyment become remarkably clear.  [Don't be a loser; be the winner she wishes for]
   
   OKAY!  You are eating delicious ass and all sorts of things can happen.  You make them happen at your direction.  Now, when I eat ass, I want no distraction, and I typically keep my hands off of her other body parts for more than several minutes.  As I eat, Susan likes to play with her tits; invariably one hand migrates to her unattended ****.  I usually disallow that by pushing it away, and sometimes this requires persistence.  Yet, conversely I myself may reach for Susan's right hand and place it directly on her ****.  Phenomenological domination and primal ownership is going on here.  I own Susan's ass, and I get it all.  I want to TAKE from her as much sense of her own bodily control as is possible.  I bring to light her visible frustrations I cause her, and magnify these injustices by dictating how she may and may not acquire her pleasure.  Of course this only works up to a certain point, which I will explain later.

  Anyway, as I got good at eating ass, I realized I could control Susan's entire vessel for her big bang.  Ultimately I do not want to stop her from diddling her own clit, and she is rather violent doing so after having been deprived that access.  I sometimes put my hand over hers and dig the forefinger into her hand for a sec.  I want to bring her act to a more conscious level.  More often, I will reach up with my right hand to carress and tweak her nipples when I know she is 'getting closer.'  She hates this because it will put her over the top before she wants, and a hand fight takes place up there.  Really though, everything important is happening from clit to **** at this stage, and I am the master of that.  I feel her efforts to fight off an orgasm, and her mini spasms result in simultaneous anal contractions against my buried tongue.  What is happening is very fluid (double entendre); and, the volley back and forth of physical and psychological sensation builds to a crescendo.
   Many a time I have tried to ignore Susan's uncontrollable bucking and writhing, and her desperate husky words begging for cock.  Kaomea talks about being furious with me, but she has no idea of Susan's fury when she has decided enough of foreplay and wants to be fucked.  
This is that certain point where I am obligated to concede or else be face to face with stark insanity and scary, piercing threats that induce unwanted adrenalin rushes.  So, what am I to do but *** her? LAUGH  Oh, she squirts volumes too.
   A last note:  a very cerebral, sensual communion happens eating ass that is unlike with the directness of cunnilingus (and, of course, I like that also).  Whenever I cross taboo barriers with Susan I find it makes bonds of intimacy, trust, and joy.

[serloco]

Judging can be doing, or it can nothing. I suggest taking care when judging reality, and to leave the **** behind you. Judgements can be powerful way setters if they are active. They can also be fuel. They make people move, like actors to the role (judgement). I dot suggest always having an active judgement, and I suggest controlling them as you live. Reality and everything in it could just be a judgement you have made. I suggest observing them and deciding your judgements. I most often lately have been living inactively as possible. I dont want to move people. I dont want to control them. My allies call it being on and being off. I, lately have preferred suspending my active flow. I am at a cross-roads. Move people and things, or not, and let them be.

No, billy the art of do, or doing, not doing your wife, nor the art of doo-doo.

[serloco]

Realizing that the moment of action, the moment of creation is always happening right now can help place awareness on what you are doing.. It is the motion of change, shifting the sands of time. Being active, or on, means you do the telling. The trick is learning when to be on and when to take off. Wax on, wax off.

[Billy]

serloco wrote:

No, billy the art of do, or doing, not doing your wife, nor the art of doo-doo.
 
Jeez serloco.. I never took you for one as being overly clever with words  Good connecting

[serloco]

There is a lot you don't know about me. Much you haven't seen.

[serloco]

You have be conscious of your awareness of everything including trying. TO try is not anything wrong nor bad. Sure you either will or will not but do you know before hand what the outcome will be? Trying is just that, it is trying. You don't know if you will or will not succeed. Seeing can tell you if you will or will not, and examining your body of the action will also show you if you can or can not. It draws from your awareness of the action. COntrolling the awareness of action is the key. Definition is tied to perception. YOu intend your action, incuding the act of trying. If it is something you call hard, or difficult then you dont know if you can or can not. Yet. Practice does make perfect and trying to do something can lead, WILL LEAD to your goal. SOmetimes you have to build the way. I used to never try anything and always would do. It was powerful but things I knew I couldnt do yet I never tried. I always said later I will have enough personal power to succeed. So I intended success but at a later date. I like to do things perfectly. I found that relying on my seeing to do a feat of power was silly. It made me not try to do things. Trying was cursed in my tonal. Like yoda said you do or do not and that is the action. It was binding. SO was personal power telling me what I can and cant do. I learned to intend can do, overtop of any cant i had. Awareness of you action and your tries can dictate what will happen. I remember playing basketball and never missing a shot for hours because my actions were drawn, connected, to my consciousness. I could just think the ball were curse to the net if i am off, and then do the action. You can tel your body and reality what your action will do. But trying is not something bad, and you do not need to intend failure because you are trying. You can not know, and you can think it out as you go. Sure, never intend failure. That was my way. Never fail at important things. I dont believe anything telling me that I cant. I imagine the best action, I think it out, and then my body just does it, in the way I have set. Again controlling the awareness of your actions does dictate what action you are performing. It simple. I suggest letting tries be a good thing on the road to success. Afterall some things must be learned and built. One success out does a thousand failures. Once you know you can then you can know. Sure, you can act without thought and just do it. The position of Do is great. You can do anything. A quick and easy action. BAM.

[serloco]

just conceive of what you are doing before and as you do it, you will draw a connection from your mind and/to your actions, your mind controlling the action. Imagine.

[serloco]

[Billy]

serloco wrote:You have to be conscious of your awareness...  then my body just does it, in the way I have set. Again controlling the awareness of your actions does... It simple...Once you know you can then you can know... you can act without thought and just do it. The position of Do is great. You can do anything. A quick and easy action. BAM.
 
The composition of my ability to TELL a reality, is very much a physical bodily awareness that projects the supporting emanation.  The manifestation I want will absolutely 100% occur when I do TELL from this bodily position or specialized attention.
   This is why Kaomea will understand the power of my desire to please her.  God, did she ever get inside my head.

[Billy]

The Art of Do
    Sub-category
    The Art of eating Ass

 God forbid that this concerns other than males or females going down on female human ass. lol

    A captivating human sexual act derives acutely from sight, sound, touch, smell, and TASTE.   The cerebral signals thereof are to make for a single consuming desire.  In a true sense and in every manner, I want to EAT [or be eaten by] the woman I love .  I want to make biology's foundational four F's (Fight, Flight, Food, ***) cogent to her.  There is to be no mistaking I am TAKING, and that the choice to flee (do other than as I do) has been TAKEN.  Survival instinct at the root of consciousness has to become operative for primative, passionate sex.  [This dynamic is not evolutionarily restrictive either.  In fact, Susan lustfully chewed me into rosygyro's idea of bolus when I first dated her]
   

    Gettin' back to the Food and *** part of eating ass:

   I want to be helpful by setting the environs here for the uneducated.  Super sex happens between the ears when inappropriate, unacceptable societal behavior (TABOO) is snottily disregarded, yet irreverently kept in play by remembering.  If sex is not filthy dirty, disgustingly wrong xD, and obscene [even to one's self/lol] it will not ever transcend to super duper sex.  Hey, I don't want to just do disgusting stuff..  I want to KNOW I am doing it, and I want a partner who is become aware and complicit in the act.

   Now, for sure you don't ask or tell her the first time you are going to eat her ass.  And, at the last, you never want to make someone do something they don't want, so you need to prevail early.  Be firm in your intent, and leave no doubt you are going to stay down there [you are TAKING her ass]. (If) When she shows initial inhibition (which is not unlikely considering social conditioning with that private part), there can be no vacillation on your part which would make her more self-conscious than she already is.  Through any initial reticence, you have to get at it like nobody's business.  If she clenches her buttocks, you need at once smack it hard and without self doubt.  This is to communicate she has no choice.  If this has not deterred resistance, it is probably over.. you both lose.
   Look, if you determine that your tongue will be in her ****, then it will be there.

   To simplify this (laying prone with yourself atop), you work from the head down.  Commanding eyes on hers give way to lowering your head below her chin to brief nuzzles of the tits, then steadily to her labia.  I would not meet her anticipation by touching the clit or parting the lips either with tongue or finger; but, you want stay there long enough to arouse her expectations.  Then, she is going to want you to do something.  While cupping your fingers over her labia, move your mouth to the ****.  Perhaps do a couple pecking kisses and a light rimming swirl with finesse, but otherwise there should be no warm-up.  AND, I do the brief pecks and rimming to invite her bodily reaction (if not reluctance).  This accentuates for your partner the condition that you intend to own her ass, whence you invade.  It is an  erotic, primal, evolutionary wonder to be TAKEN without permission, and without recourse.

   As I imply, quite immediately your tongue is to penetrate her ****.  Do this deeply and with such conviction that she believes you may very well crawl up her ****.  Now, there is going to be some real fun in how you bring order (and disorder) to her life.  Before I get into details, at some point well underway and with utmost confidence, take your tongue away from her.  Such will bring her momentary confusion/intrigue.  Grab a cushion or pillow, have her pick up her bottom, and raise up her ass.  Now you can eat proficiently, at times pulling her cheeks apart to go deeper.  
  Know that your partner wants to let go, but also recognize humans are frought with inhibitions.  It is paramount whenever your partner would show qualm or exhibit hesitancy, that you respond with a strong counter measure.  Let her know resolutely that resistance to your advances in whatever shape or form are NOT acceptable to you.  I mean, her surrender that follows, and the upside differences at the next level of her enjoyment become remarkably clear.  [Don't be a loser; be the winner she wishes for]
   
   OKAY!  You are eating delicious ass and all sorts of things can happen.  You make them happen at your direction.  Now, when I eat ass, I want no distraction, and I typically keep my hands off of her other body parts for more than several minutes.  As I eat, Susan likes to play with her tits; invariably one hand migrates to her unattended ****.  I usually disallow that by pushing it away, and sometimes this requires persistence.  Yet, conversely I myself may reach for Susan's right hand and place it directly on her ****.  Phenomenological domination and primal ownership is going on here.  I own Susan's ass, and I get it all.  I want to TAKE from her as much sense of her own bodily control as is possible.  I bring to light her visible frustrations I cause her, and magnify these injustices by dictating how she may and may not acquire her pleasure.  Of course this only works up to a certain point, which I will explain later.

  Anyway, as I got good at eating ass, I realized I could control Susan's entire vessel for her big bang.  Ultimately I do not want to stop her from diddling her own clit, and she is rather violent doing so after having been deprived that access.  I sometimes put my hand over hers and dig the forefinger into her hand for a sec.  I want to bring her act to a more conscious level.  More often, I will reach up with my right hand to carress and tweak her nipples when I know she is 'getting closer.'  She hates this because it will put her over the top before she wants, and a hand fight takes place up there.  Really though, everything important is happening from clit to **** at this stage, and I am the master of that.  I feel her efforts to fight off an orgasm, and her mini spasms result in simultaneous anal contractions against my buried tongue.  What is happening is very fluid (double entendre); and, the volley back and forth of physical and psychological sensation builds to a crescendo.
   Many a time I have tried to ignore Susan's uncontrollable bucking and writhing, and her desperate husky words begging for cock.  Kaomea talks about being furious with me, but she has no idea of Susan's fury when she has decided enough of foreplay and wants to be fucked.  
This is that certain point where I am obligated to concede or else be face to face with stark insanity and scary, piercing threats that induce unwanted adrenalin rushes.  So, what am I to do but *** her? LAUGH  Oh, she squirts volumes too.
   A last note:  a very cerebral, sensual communion happens eating ass that is unlike with the directness of cunnilingus (and, of course, I like that also).  Whenever I cross taboo barriers with Susan I find it makes bonds of intimacy, trust, and joy.

[serloco]

Judging can be doing, or it can nothing. I suggest taking care when judging reality, and to leave the **** behind you. Judgements can be powerful way setters if they are active. They can also be fuel. They make people move, like actors to the role (judgement). I dot suggest always having an active judgement, and I suggest controlling them as you live. Reality and everything in it could just be a judgement you have made. I suggest observing them and deciding your judgements. I most often lately have been living inactively as possible. I dont want to move people. I dont want to control them. My allies call it being on and being off. I, lately have preferred suspending my active flow. I am at a cross-roads. Move people and things, or not, and let them be.

No, billy the art of do, or doing, not doing your wife, nor the art of doo-doo.

[serloco]

Realizing that the moment of action, the moment of creation is always happening right now can help place awareness on what you are doing.. It is the motion of change, shifting the sands of time. Being active, or on, means you do the telling. The trick is learning when to be on and when to take off. Wax on, wax off.

[Billy]

serloco wrote:

No, billy the art of do, or doing, not doing your wife, nor the art of doo-doo.
 
Jeez serloco.. I never took you for one as being overly clever with words  Good connecting

[serloco]

There is a lot you don't know about me. Much you haven't seen.

[serloco]

You have be conscious of your awareness of everything including trying. TO try is not anything wrong nor bad. Sure you either will or will not but do you know before hand what the outcome will be? Trying is just that, it is trying. You don't know if you will or will not succeed. Seeing can tell you if you will or will not, and examining your body of the action will also show you if you can or can not. It draws from your awareness of the action. COntrolling the awareness of action is the key. Definition is tied to perception. YOu intend your action, incuding the act of trying. If it is something you call hard, or difficult then you dont know if you can or can not. Yet. Practice does make perfect and trying to do something can lead, WILL LEAD to your goal. SOmetimes you have to build the way. I used to never try anything and always would do. It was powerful but things I knew I couldnt do yet I never tried. I always said later I will have enough personal power to succeed. So I intended success but at a later date. I like to do things perfectly. I found that relying on my seeing to do a feat of power was silly. It made me not try to do things. Trying was cursed in my tonal. Like yoda said you do or do not and that is the action. It was binding. SO was personal power telling me what I can and cant do. I learned to intend can do, overtop of any cant i had. Awareness of you action and your tries can dictate what will happen. I remember playing basketball and never missing a shot for hours because my actions were drawn, connected, to my consciousness. I could just think the ball were curse to the net if i am off, and then do the action. You can tel your body and reality what your action will do. But trying is not something bad, and you do not need to intend failure because you are trying. You can not know, and you can think it out as you go. Sure, never intend failure. That was my way. Never fail at important things. I dont believe anything telling me that I cant. I imagine the best action, I think it out, and then my body just does it, in the way I have set. Again controlling the awareness of your actions does dictate what action you are performing. It simple. I suggest letting tries be a good thing on the road to success. Afterall some things must be learned and built. One success out does a thousand failures. Once you know you can then you can know. Sure, you can act without thought and just do it. The position of Do is great. You can do anything. A quick and easy action. BAM.

[serloco]

just conceive of what you are doing before and as you do it, you will draw a connection from your mind and/to your actions, your mind controlling the action. Imagine.

[serloco]

[Billy]

serloco wrote:You have to be conscious of your awareness...  then my body just does it, in the way I have set. Again controlling the awareness of your actions does... It simple...Once you know you can then you can know... you can act without thought and just do it. The position of Do is great. You can do anything. A quick and easy action. BAM.
 
The composition of my ability to TELL a reality, is very much a physical bodily awareness that projects the supporting emanation.  The manifestation I want will absolutely 100% occur when I do TELL from this bodily position or specialized attention.
   This is why Kaomea will understand the power of my desire to please her.  God, did she ever get inside my head.

[Billy]

The Art of Do
    Sub-category
    The Art of eating Ass

 God forbid that this concerns other than males or females going down on female human ass. lol

    A captivating human sexual act derives acutely from sight, sound, touch, smell, and TASTE.   The cerebral signals thereof are to make for a single consuming desire.  In a true sense and in every manner, I want to EAT [or be eaten by] the woman I love .  I want to make biology's foundational four F's (Fight, Flight, Food, ***) cogent to her.  There is to be no mistaking I am TAKING, and that the choice to flee (do other than as I do) has been TAKEN.  Survival instinct at the root of consciousness has to become operative for primative, passionate sex.  [This dynamic is not evolutionarily restrictive either.  In fact, Susan lustfully chewed me into rosygyro's idea of bolus when I first dated her]
   

    Gettin' back to the Food and *** part of eating ass:

   I want to be helpful by setting the environs here for the uneducated.  Super sex happens between the ears when inappropriate, unacceptable societal behavior (TABOO) is snottily disregarded, yet irreverently kept in play by remembering.  If sex is not filthy dirty, disgustingly wrong xD, and obscene [even to one's self/lol] it will not ever transcend to super duper sex.  Hey, I don't want to just do disgusting stuff..  I want to KNOW I am doing it, and I want a partner who is become aware and complicit in the act.

   Now, for sure you don't ask or tell her the first time you are going to eat her ass.  And, at the last, you never want to make someone do something they don't want, so you need to prevail early.  Be firm in your intent, and leave no doubt you are going to stay down there [you are TAKING her ass]. (If) When she shows initial inhibition (which is not unlikely considering social conditioning with that private part), there can be no vacillation on your part which would make her more self-conscious than she already is.  Through any initial reticence, you have to get at it like nobody's business.  If she clenches her buttocks, you need at once smack it hard and without self doubt.  This is to communicate she has no choice.  If this has not deterred resistance, it is probably over.. you both lose.
   Look, if you determine that your tongue will be in her ****, then it will be there.

   To simplify this (laying prone with yourself atop), you work from the head down.  Commanding eyes on hers give way to lowering your head below her chin to brief nuzzles of the tits, then steadily to her labia.  I would not meet her anticipation by touching the clit or parting the lips either with tongue or finger; but, you want stay there long enough to arouse her expectations.  Then, she is going to want you to do something.  While cupping your fingers over her labia, move your mouth to the ****.  Perhaps do a couple pecking kisses and a light rimming swirl with finesse, but otherwise there should be no warm-up.  AND, I do the brief pecks and rimming to invite her bodily reaction (if not reluctance).  This accentuates for your partner the condition that you intend to own her ass, whence you invade.  It is an  erotic, primal, evolutionary wonder to be TAKEN without permission, and without recourse.

   As I imply, quite immediately your tongue is to penetrate her ****.  Do this deeply and with such conviction that she believes you may very well crawl up her ****.  Now, there is going to be some real fun in how you bring order (and disorder) to her life.  Before I get into details, at some point well underway and with utmost confidence, take your tongue away from her.  Such will bring her momentary confusion/intrigue.  Grab a cushion or pillow, have her pick up her bottom, and raise up her ass.  Now you can eat proficiently, at times pulling her cheeks apart to go deeper.  
  Know that your partner wants to let go, but also recognize humans are frought with inhibitions.  It is paramount whenever your partner would show qualm or exhibit hesitancy, that you respond with a strong counter measure.  Let her know resolutely that resistance to your advances in whatever shape or form are NOT acceptable to you.  I mean, her surrender that follows, and the upside differences at the next level of her enjoyment become remarkably clear.  [Don't be a loser; be the winner she wishes for]
   
   OKAY!  You are eating delicious ass and all sorts of things can happen.  You make them happen at your direction.  Now, when I eat ass, I want no distraction, and I typically keep my hands off of her other body parts for more than several minutes.  As I eat, Susan likes to play with her tits; invariably one hand migrates to her unattended ****.  I usually disallow that by pushing it away, and sometimes this requires persistence.  Yet, conversely I myself may reach for Susan's right hand and place it directly on her ****.  Phenomenological domination and primal ownership is going on here.  I own Susan's ass, and I get it all.  I want to TAKE from her as much sense of her own bodily control as is possible.  I bring to light her visible frustrations I cause her, and magnify these injustices by dictating how she may and may not acquire her pleasure.  Of course this only works up to a certain point, which I will explain later.

  Anyway, as I got good at eating ass, I realized I could control Susan's entire vessel for her big bang.  Ultimately I do not want to stop her from diddling her own clit, and she is rather violent doing so after having been deprived that access.  I sometimes put my hand over hers and dig the forefinger into her hand for a sec.  I want to bring her act to a more conscious level.  More often, I will reach up with my right hand to carress and tweak her nipples when I know she is 'getting closer.'  She hates this because it will put her over the top before she wants, and a hand fight takes place up there.  Really though, everything important is happening from clit to **** at this stage, and I am the master of that.  I feel her efforts to fight off an orgasm, and her mini spasms result in simultaneous anal contractions against my buried tongue.  What is happening is very fluid (double entendre); and, the volley back and forth of physical and psychological sensation builds to a crescendo.
   Many a time I have tried to ignore Susan's uncontrollable bucking and writhing, and her desperate husky words begging for cock.  Kaomea talks about being furious with me, but she has no idea of Susan's fury when she has decided enough of foreplay and wants to be fucked.  
This is that certain point where I am obligated to concede or else be face to face with stark insanity and scary, piercing threats that induce unwanted adrenalin rushes.  So, what am I to do but *** her? LAUGH  Oh, she squirts volumes too.
   A last note:  a very cerebral, sensual communion happens eating ass that is unlike with the directness of cunnilingus (and, of course, I like that also).  Whenever I cross taboo barriers with Susan I find it makes bonds of intimacy, trust, and joy.