Question about stalking

[cherryarc]

Why is it when I act out through emotion such as anger, everything I say looking back on it feels fine and justified. But when i talk to someone in a normal social context,(when its not charged with any emotion) I can look back on it and have regrets. Or wish I did things differently.

[NagualHuman]

Because its natural to use emotions...
Its a part of controlled folly... most people strive to act and talk "neutral" like that noone can point a **** about it afterwards and mainly beucase "social contextualisation", while in reality we all wanna act with passion and express emotions... on contrary most people does not wanna see emotions of others and strive to be "neutral", because we all know somewhere deep, that showing our true face is like opening yourself.
Stalkers dont care about opening or closing towards the reaction, they actually give a *** and every word, every act and every emotion they let through, they know it means nothing, they are disciplined in means that they know they can act anyhow and use any tools/emotions in communication for their goal, while they still keep in mind, that the emotions means nothing.
People in society takes it serious.
Stalkers take playing of the game seriously.

[cherryarc]

Thank you, this is really clear answer and I have gained insight from it. How would you go about channeling more passion in everyday conversations?

[cherryarc]

Does controlled folly mean you act with abandon but without being reckless, Like say let your emotion envelop you, but yet still act impeccable?

[NagualHuman]

Its means you got control over it, that you dont feel it as something (for example when shouting on someone) bad, you still feel its just an game, you dont have any...could be said - emotions attached to your emotions.
Most people get too much drawn by their emotion and than have a remorse, because they think, that they are innocent in that manner, or that people, or anybody was innocent, while they dont get that its still just a game....that in reality noone is guilty, that noone in reality wanna act like **** or whatever, what does *** people around is their God of Immortal Importance that does not allows them to just get over it(its easy to make jokes , because they got some strange voice in their head that sounds really weird.

[NagualHuman]

I think that conversation is more than about the "words" the "context" about actually tone and sounding of the voice, the tone is actually filled with emotions not the words, words are all the time just words, while what drain people is the tone or sounding of voice of others of themselves and with some really unawaited words its sometimes really a Blow of Death.

Death blows every living beign anytime, their Integrity, their goodbeign is attacked, its hard to describe how it feels, the biggest are felt straight in the belly, where we have a crack through which death comes, the smaller blows are felt, best somehow like "really fucked me up!".

Warrior fights with death, in manner that he actually after getting fucked up or "shifted" somehow, she does something that "lifts up" few words, joke, or act, whatever that will tell her that still she is living and "rockin" beign instead of getting slowed and bored to death.

Sorcery in translation means change a really "headstanding change"
Its about getting to understand that you are actually completely different person every second, or that you can change as mućh as you have seconds, every second you literally die and reborn to another, there is something called "Pitch Blank" its a an attribute in time, sorcerer develop, its ability to by every second understand that you are noone, nobody that you actually not the same person, and that allows sorcerer to change or react correspondingly without getting attached to the words and acts of people.

does not mean you have to be,
to be a warrior - but I am Reckless and Venturous and I really like it
The most reckless people usually get what they want

[watergaze]

cherryarc wrote:Why is it when I act out through emotion such as anger, everything I say looking back on it feels fine and justified. But when i talk to someone in a normal social context,(when its not charged with any emotion) I can look back on it and have regrets. Or wish I did things differently.
emotions help with decision making (scientifically proven. putting 'emotions and decision making' into google gets quite a few relevant results).

the decision process links with the feeling, and might be a feeling in itself. AI makers are trying to emulate this. a machine gets results of calculations but decision making is more complex than just calculations, and behavior links to feelings, so some choices are not easily AI calculated.

when I look back at me acting/deciding due to having an emotion it is clear to me I acted best I could at that moment in time, cause if I was back in that moment in the same state, so having the same level of experience and feeling/emotion that I had at that moment Id have decided the same thing (but if I was back there with my current self I would have another experience and feel differently in many situations, so decide different).

Emotions/feelings put force to our decisions, they are usually quicker and feel more right when in them. it makes sense they feel more right cause they have a feeling and/or emotion linked to them, so with the feeling link they obviously feel somehow (and we know feelings/emotions, if left to their own devices, rarely question themselves, in general when sad it feels right to be sad, when in anger it feels right to be angry etc) . But if you examine these decisions with putting focus on your critical reasoning capabilities you will surely find stuff to criticize or improve (so, looking at our patterns of behavior and emotions makes a lot of sense) . Actually it is good to have that switched on even when emotions are taking us some where/to some decision. Deciding against what the emotion is telling us to do often makes sense. Clear example: instead of blowing up taking a step back and taking a deep breath; not brooding alone when feeling sad but going out into the city to experience things.

If one has regrets about past behavior, one of the reasons that can happen is that one did not wait for the feeling of it being natural/right (or not), in sync (or not) with the flow of things. Still, other than noticing, it makes no sense to regret things, it is one's mind trying to get one into a loop. If we are serious about seeing a flaw in the past behavior it makes not much sense to waste too much energy on the regret but to aim it at a change of patterns and behaviors. If we seriously want something done differently the next time, then I suggest we get a grip and do it instead of brooding over it .

If I go back to emotions/feelings rarely questioning themselves it makes sense why that type of decision is less likely to come under scrutiny.. The mind on the other hand likes to question and maul over things, so it questions itself too. If we decide with the mind and have an undisciplined mind.. then we are asking to go off on a loop with it hehe...

[Littlepaw]

Nagual Human you talk as though you have this controlled folly thing down as an art? you make it sound easy,,,, well I bet it is if you know how but do you know how?

The reason I ask is because your posts do not come across to me as someone who has much self control at all all let alone controlled folly.

[Guest]