05-21-2018, 12:00 AM
When I have something important to me, and need to leave for some time, I'm very selective of who I trust to care for it. I don't entrust my thing to someone careless, destructive, or uneducated. I pick the best of the litter.
I pick someone thoughtful, kind, intelligent, educated, and who has a sense of self control.
I might choose opposite traits for a lover because each role is served differently. A lover is often taken for their ability to be easily excited, lustful. A caretaker is often taken for their ability to love.
A lover is fun, a caretaker is necessary. A want versus a need.
A lover is often a temporary pleasure. A caretaker is forever.
A lover is purchasing the milk. A caretaker is purchasing the cow.
A lover is often a fling. A caretaker is someone to marry.
When selecting the leader of my antfarm, I pick someone who isn't going to put their fist through the glass. I pick someone who will look at the ants in amazement and try to make their lives better. A kind heart is clear to see.
I use the same selection process for my snake pit, demon horde, and army of torturers. The person to lead my assortment of evil collections is someone kind.
Because at the core of my heart, my selection is a reflection of who I am. I want someone to marry, not someone to boink.
- From the book, How to Rule with Heart and Not Genitals
I pick someone thoughtful, kind, intelligent, educated, and who has a sense of self control.
I might choose opposite traits for a lover because each role is served differently. A lover is often taken for their ability to be easily excited, lustful. A caretaker is often taken for their ability to love.
A lover is fun, a caretaker is necessary. A want versus a need.
A lover is often a temporary pleasure. A caretaker is forever.
A lover is purchasing the milk. A caretaker is purchasing the cow.
A lover is often a fling. A caretaker is someone to marry.
When selecting the leader of my antfarm, I pick someone who isn't going to put their fist through the glass. I pick someone who will look at the ants in amazement and try to make their lives better. A kind heart is clear to see.
I use the same selection process for my snake pit, demon horde, and army of torturers. The person to lead my assortment of evil collections is someone kind.
Because at the core of my heart, my selection is a reflection of who I am. I want someone to marry, not someone to boink.
- From the book, How to Rule with Heart and Not Genitals
