09-21-2015, 12:03 AM
A major step forward to effective de-personalization is the viewpoint that all other persons in existence are joined in communal manifestation to such degree that no conceivable personal kinks, quirks, perversions are not part of your nature too. Conversely, the private abominable imagination's secrets (not admitted), are truly innate to mankind at large. This isn't about feel-good absolution here.
You need this understanding to become matter-of-fact. As I touch the surface, I am learning that all ideology and interactions come full circle inclusively. That is, as I watch my wife, you, or anyone else-- I learn in acute detachment that I can observe myself therein. Why would I alienate what is essentially how I am? If I hate you, I kinda hate something about myself. Not ethics here
Now that great sounding talk can register, but it is not enough if the gap between world (otherness) is not completely bridged, and the bridge SEEN in the normalcy of your predominant vision and exchange.
SERIOUSLY, this is all farther along in detachment practice (not theoretical). Clearly I am able to control the immediate world around me in ways I could not fathom even a year ago. But this step occurred because I had gained a modicum of separation that comprehended I was not unique. Only then could I extend SELF-control to my world in general. That is, I was no longer in a mode of controlling you, I was simply controlling myself. I have a lot of catching up to do with myself (dubbed billy/derek) derek (serloco)= expansion= billy= empty void= happy
You need this understanding to become matter-of-fact. As I touch the surface, I am learning that all ideology and interactions come full circle inclusively. That is, as I watch my wife, you, or anyone else-- I learn in acute detachment that I can observe myself therein. Why would I alienate what is essentially how I am? If I hate you, I kinda hate something about myself. Not ethics here
Now that great sounding talk can register, but it is not enough if the gap between world (otherness) is not completely bridged, and the bridge SEEN in the normalcy of your predominant vision and exchange.
SERIOUSLY, this is all farther along in detachment practice (not theoretical). Clearly I am able to control the immediate world around me in ways I could not fathom even a year ago. But this step occurred because I had gained a modicum of separation that comprehended I was not unique. Only then could I extend SELF-control to my world in general. That is, I was no longer in a mode of controlling you, I was simply controlling myself. I have a lot of catching up to do with myself (dubbed billy/derek) derek (serloco)= expansion= billy= empty void= happy