10-06-2015, 12:03 AM
Really though, HOW you CAN detach is less relevant than that you DO detach-- and that you pay attention here to focus and learn the better WAYS.
When more efficient in detachment, 'paying attention' and 'better WAYS' is in regards to fine tuning the process, extracting application, and acting for optimum value (happiness).
Understand, I gave a scenario of detaching under duress, but the learning that gets you acumen starts with minor obstacles, unpleasantries, and petty self-pity and resentments. I'm giving you the idea the gains are limitless (and they are). So get some successes to draw on, persist, and quickly you will find that practicing detachment is irresistable > becomes a substantial game.
When more efficient in detachment, 'paying attention' and 'better WAYS' is in regards to fine tuning the process, extracting application, and acting for optimum value (happiness).
Understand, I gave a scenario of detaching under duress, but the learning that gets you acumen starts with minor obstacles, unpleasantries, and petty self-pity and resentments. I'm giving you the idea the gains are limitless (and they are). So get some successes to draw on, persist, and quickly you will find that practicing detachment is irresistable > becomes a substantial game.