02-13-2014, 12:00 AM
i find this fascinating, because after reading the books and talking to others, it seems most peoples experiences contain grabbing them or wrestling with them, in order to obtain them. mine seem to show up and although, i had a 2 1/2 year struggle with an ally that was not my own, i've never had to wrestle any of them. Any ideas on why this is, or is it that, i hadn't read the books for so long and therefore, i didn't assume i had to do this. thoughts, feelings and experiences please...