07-25-2013, 12:00 AM
GB, I suspect that in both cases, be it dreaming or physical sex, the main issue is feeling, and that a given feeling is really energy that has a certain vibrational rate. My intuition says that this is why certain dream encounters feel like real sex, because they really are. The two are almost identical, it's just that one is with a physical body involved, and the other is not primarily physical.
And of course, advanced tantra has as much or more to do with "energy work" than it does with physical technique. The high vibration involved with tantra is thoroughly energetic, but curiously, this fact is not generally spoken of in the mainstream. True to it's materialistic fixation, society seems to like to think of sex as a purely physical act. But great sex is actually more chi-based and electromagnetic than anything else. The reason why so many in modern times do not find satisfying sexual relations though, is that they do not explore the energetic, polar aspect, and even more so, they don't experiment with different intentions. True tantra implies a spiritual intent, which is to say one that builds up their counterpart, rather than manipulating, "using" selfishly, or possessing.
People tend to think of anything spiritual as rather dry and inhibiting. But this is only because they've been conditioned to think that way due to sterile religious conditioning. The actual fact of the matter is that sex had through spiritual intention, actually creates far more pleasure and depth of benefit in all ways, especially when it is a two-way exchange of such high intent.
And of course, advanced tantra has as much or more to do with "energy work" than it does with physical technique. The high vibration involved with tantra is thoroughly energetic, but curiously, this fact is not generally spoken of in the mainstream. True to it's materialistic fixation, society seems to like to think of sex as a purely physical act. But great sex is actually more chi-based and electromagnetic than anything else. The reason why so many in modern times do not find satisfying sexual relations though, is that they do not explore the energetic, polar aspect, and even more so, they don't experiment with different intentions. True tantra implies a spiritual intent, which is to say one that builds up their counterpart, rather than manipulating, "using" selfishly, or possessing.
People tend to think of anything spiritual as rather dry and inhibiting. But this is only because they've been conditioned to think that way due to sterile religious conditioning. The actual fact of the matter is that sex had through spiritual intention, actually creates far more pleasure and depth of benefit in all ways, especially when it is a two-way exchange of such high intent.