02-18-2012, 12:00 AM
Mental speed yes. I often rely on that to stay ahead of the curve, which just means im not directly confronting it enough just running and changing zig and zag. I have spoken, without using the word flyer (didnt really know it till november), many times about this with my family members, with varying degrees of interaction. Even my dad...that did not end well. How one person triggers another, and the emotions consume us and dont do anythng but reinforce being stuck. More directly with jade and my mom, once with jade about flyers. He looked at me with wary regard in his eyes. My little npehew too, about his tantrums, but he just says he knows but how hard it is to cut it off and take a moment to breath and disapate it. Ill do it again more specifically about the FI as the opportunity comes up.