02-18-2012, 12:00 AM
I myself have known both predicaments. There was a period of my life I was pretty emotionally bogged down and so know what that feels like, and these days from release of past issues I have come to know greater mental speed so it a bit like a car chase between me and FI, it can't get me so easily, I'm fast now. Some people have that speed from early on, like Judge Judy, and it could be a family AP of speed saviness or just a predilection of hers. The only bad thing about that is her speed gives her success in the world of men, she can see the stupidity of others well, their FI, but thus likely does not see hers by comparison then. But I am just guessing since I don't know what she's like off camera.