03-12-2012, 12:00 AM
Yes it, your personal details around your sexuality, are also a non issue from my perspective. But i could see how that might lend itself to feeling disconnected, or at least worrying about it. Whats more to the point, is putting too much emphasis on connecting in dreaming. It hardly ever goes to plan, and sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't, not something to worry about or feel like there is smoothing there you aren't getting/connecting with. That state of getting it is an illusion non state anyway...i mean shared dreaming. For the forums, when one is not being regarded, connecting, what i do is double down and put more of myself...my dreams and joy and self out there. Just play, and those id hope to connect with notice, like you for example, and the ones that wont dont want to are self absorbed, well, no matter what they wont anyway so no use, for me festering over that fact. Better to laugh at my own fears then snarl at the shadows they, fear, cast on the wall.