11-21-2013, 12:00 AM
cherry and little paw... to try and get specific and practical here....im going to attempt tp [pint out alot of the stalking potential in just that small post you wrote cherry..so you can see if you wanted to run with any of them....
ok so you said " but it seems i have run out of content. Or maybe the fear has taken me. Just tonight at the bar someone has taken me for an employee at another place just because of my dress. Instead i told them where i actually worked. Should i have ran with it ?
lets break down possible stalks you could run with...ie to do with yourself or out in the real world
so you have run out of content?
you could...stalk yourself and ask what 'content' is,...or look at the different contexts of content..for example, does content for you lead to contentment?
or ask the question, if i have run out of content...then what do i actually have now?. what did i have. what could i have next?
then you asked has fear taken me?
has it?...what is fear?. how does fear take one? and where does it take you?...does it really take you? and who is this me it takes anyway? is there always a me to take? and does fear always take this me, to the same place, to different places?
then we have you interaction with a 'someone'? in a bar?
contextually did you have an intent to go to the bar? ie what was the stalk of going into the bar in the first place....what were you looking to experience..?
who is this 'someone' what was their stalk in going to the bar? was it similar to your intent/stalk or different? how did this similarity/difference effect you in your interaction?
did you wear that dress as a prop to your stalk at the bar? did that someone else notice that dress as a prop to your stalk? how did that make you feel..? to be acknowledged? or did that someone use that dress as a prop in interactiom in a different way? ie did the 'dress' work on many different levels?
what would have happened if the dress had been removed? would the interaction have happened at all? what did you gain from the interaction?...after the interaction could you have interacted different or was the interaction steered by the dress or someone else...how could you have, or would you have changed this...in alignment with why you went to the bar in the first place, or allowed the interaction to take place?
see where i am going with this? to gain control of stalking in everyday activities..in the first instance you have to understand you and your environment are instrumental props to an everyday stalk...
which mood did you take on? did this change?
by breaking down even unconscious stalks..you can make them available to you in a more conscious way next time......i hope this shows a liyyle of how you can build up basic 'acting' skills in every day life,....the tool box of the controlled folly, in the world....x
ok so you said " but it seems i have run out of content. Or maybe the fear has taken me. Just tonight at the bar someone has taken me for an employee at another place just because of my dress. Instead i told them where i actually worked. Should i have ran with it ?
lets break down possible stalks you could run with...ie to do with yourself or out in the real world
so you have run out of content?
you could...stalk yourself and ask what 'content' is,...or look at the different contexts of content..for example, does content for you lead to contentment?
or ask the question, if i have run out of content...then what do i actually have now?. what did i have. what could i have next?
then you asked has fear taken me?
has it?...what is fear?. how does fear take one? and where does it take you?...does it really take you? and who is this me it takes anyway? is there always a me to take? and does fear always take this me, to the same place, to different places?
then we have you interaction with a 'someone'? in a bar?
contextually did you have an intent to go to the bar? ie what was the stalk of going into the bar in the first place....what were you looking to experience..?
who is this 'someone' what was their stalk in going to the bar? was it similar to your intent/stalk or different? how did this similarity/difference effect you in your interaction?
did you wear that dress as a prop to your stalk at the bar? did that someone else notice that dress as a prop to your stalk? how did that make you feel..? to be acknowledged? or did that someone use that dress as a prop in interactiom in a different way? ie did the 'dress' work on many different levels?
what would have happened if the dress had been removed? would the interaction have happened at all? what did you gain from the interaction?...after the interaction could you have interacted different or was the interaction steered by the dress or someone else...how could you have, or would you have changed this...in alignment with why you went to the bar in the first place, or allowed the interaction to take place?
see where i am going with this? to gain control of stalking in everyday activities..in the first instance you have to understand you and your environment are instrumental props to an everyday stalk...
which mood did you take on? did this change?
by breaking down even unconscious stalks..you can make them available to you in a more conscious way next time......i hope this shows a liyyle of how you can build up basic 'acting' skills in every day life,....the tool box of the controlled folly, in the world....x