02-19-2004, 12:00 AM
I heard that the person who pisses you off the most has the most to teach you, usually about yourself, most likely about the FI that's IN yourself.
The guy who sits behind me at work likes to steal stuff from my desk. Yesterday he stole every last bit of cash out of my purse, today I saw it in his eyes and tricked him into putting it back. I told my boss, was too long in his office with the door closed, so the guy figured out what was going on and stole my notepad. I was pretty pissed off by it all (it's been going on a long time).
Maybe it's my FI that gets me worked up over his predictable behavior, which I can do little about. Is there an enlightened way of dealing with a person eaten up by the FI so it doesn't trigger your own FI to respond? I mean, I wasn't happy with myself for pondering vengeance yet I wonder if there is an action required in a situation like this to subdue an aggressive FI in another person. Maybe this is more of a stalking question...
The guy who sits behind me at work likes to steal stuff from my desk. Yesterday he stole every last bit of cash out of my purse, today I saw it in his eyes and tricked him into putting it back. I told my boss, was too long in his office with the door closed, so the guy figured out what was going on and stole my notepad. I was pretty pissed off by it all (it's been going on a long time).
Maybe it's my FI that gets me worked up over his predictable behavior, which I can do little about. Is there an enlightened way of dealing with a person eaten up by the FI so it doesn't trigger your own FI to respond? I mean, I wasn't happy with myself for pondering vengeance yet I wonder if there is an action required in a situation like this to subdue an aggressive FI in another person. Maybe this is more of a stalking question...