Getting the girl 101

[Pixie Dust]

You mention making someone the happiest you can.  That's nice--to want that for another.  I've stopped doing that for years now.  I don't focus on being such a central figure because I can't always promise I'll be around.  I have side projects I'm often investigating and those projects take me into places that require me to be absent from all other aspects of life.  Everything I do at Sorcery is a sort of pro bono thing--I use it to give back.  I suppose the question is what exactly am I giving?  That's difficult to convey.  I see patterns in people and events.  I often don't share my observations because I aim to be a human and normal during my off-time.  Everyone needs a place to grow so off-time is my time for me-time.  I come here to ponder concepts I haven't explored yet.  I'll share my observations of others should the need arise, but I don't generally volunteer those because honesty can be alienating  Anyway, what I give is my thoughtful consideration and time and if used wisely, my skill set has numerous uses that others could benefit from.  I also benefit from being here--and those reasons I'll keep private  but there's something here for me too

Anyway, I've been uninterested in romance for over a decade now.  Although, I'm interested in love.  Unconditional love of nature, humanity, and the sciences of the world  there's so much left to do:

Robert Frost said it most concisely:

The woods are lovely, dark and deep,   

But I have promises to keep,   
And miles to go before I sleep,   
And miles to go before I sleep.



You'll find your love Serloco.  The sort of love you speak of comes from yourself, not another.  Have you built your own gourd yet?    You have such a wonderful heart that you should consider giving it to yourself.