01-26-2015, 12:00 AM
Gugeyewalker wrote:
Ruthlessness is the option of dispensing with compassion or anything else that is an obstacle. To be sure - ruthlessness does not mean less joyful necessarily.
Someone in pain indulging self-pity gets no reprieve from someone upholding their self-pity in compassion. Ruthlessness is a good word here. You take that person's self-importance from under them, and bring them to YOUR moment. The contrast is so great from the usual bullshit. Watch how it disarms that person. There is an immediate triumph over any tradgedy and visibly the person lightens up and exhales freely. Your fluid intent to not accept his pity releases that person's rigid fixation. Now you talk or express nothing honestly, and really only an awareness exists. Only what it is to be alive in communion rules in those moments. It is the right way to be-- It is a particularily sacred way to be in such situations, and it is an exercise in personal power with no selfishness.
Ruthlessness is the option of dispensing with compassion or anything else that is an obstacle. To be sure - ruthlessness does not mean less joyful necessarily.
Someone in pain indulging self-pity gets no reprieve from someone upholding their self-pity in compassion. Ruthlessness is a good word here. You take that person's self-importance from under them, and bring them to YOUR moment. The contrast is so great from the usual bullshit. Watch how it disarms that person. There is an immediate triumph over any tradgedy and visibly the person lightens up and exhales freely. Your fluid intent to not accept his pity releases that person's rigid fixation. Now you talk or express nothing honestly, and really only an awareness exists. Only what it is to be alive in communion rules in those moments. It is the right way to be-- It is a particularily sacred way to be in such situations, and it is an exercise in personal power with no selfishness.