Stalking the requirement not to stalk

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For example, I see myself as a

Am I really that? Maybe on some imaginary level, if I turn my seeing upside down and inside out, I might see something which resembles a unicorn. Yet, I am not that, yet I am. Is there a separation between the duality of concern and non-concern? Does it go back to the 'it's one, not two' approach?

I think I know the answer, but do I really?