dysfunctional relationships?

[Pixie Dust]

Everyone is different.

[Le_Regard]

Pixie Dust wrote:
Everyone is different.

We all normally have two arms, two legs, 10 fingers, and 10 toes, a heart, two kidneys, and a liver...  for example.

Some people have 9 fingers, some people have one leg, a few people have one kidney...  they might do ok, but without a heart you'd be quite...  dysfunctional, shall we say.

[Pixie Dust]

Yes, and due to those differences each individual creates their own perception. Dysfunction is set by the social norms within a particular civilization. Being dysfunctional in one doesn't guarantee dysfunction in another.

[Le_Regard]

Pixie Dust wrote:
Yes, and due to those differences each individual creates their own perception.  Dysfunction is set by the social norms within a particular civilization.  Being dysfunctional in one doesn't guarantee dysfunction in another.

There's a very, very wide extent to which I'm willing to grant that some people are "different" than the standard...  but if you have a bullet in your leg you are disfigured, you are properly speaking, broken, not different.

[Pixie Dust]

Are you speaking of internal or external brokenness?

[Le_Regard]

Pixie Dust wrote:
Are you speaking of internal or external brokenness?

I don't know.  It could go either way.  The universe is completely inside of me and I am completely outside of myself.

[Le_Regard]

Le_Regard wrote:
Pixie Dust wrote:
Are you speaking of internal or external brokenness?

I don't know.  It could go either way.  The universe is completely inside of me and I am completely outside of myself.

I'll just say this though...  if you think people can't be broken, try breaking someone and see how it makes you feel.

[Le_Regard]

Le_Regard wrote:
Le_Regard wrote:
Pixie Dust wrote:
Are you speaking of internal or external brokenness?

I don't know.  It could go either way.  The universe is completely inside of me and I am completely outside of myself.

I'll just say this though...  if you think people can't be broken, try breaking someone and see how it makes you feel.

OH HEY did he actually send you $250?  Do you have $250 more than you had before now?

I'm really invested in seeing how that works out.

[Le_Regard]

Le_Regard wrote:
Le_Regard wrote:
Le_Regard wrote:


I don't know.  It could go either way.  The universe is completely inside of me and I am completely outside of myself.

I'll just say this though...  if you think people can't be broken, try breaking someone and see how it makes you feel.

OH HEY did he actually send you $250?  Do you have $250 more than you had before now?

I'm really invested in seeing how that works out.

I don't even know why I'm saying this... but I'm committed to my Art, and this is an experiment that needs to happen.  If he HASN'T given you $250 and that all went bust, I'd consider sending you like... $7?  Maybe $9 if you're really pushy about it.  Might be hot, I don't know.

[serloco]

Le_Regard wrote:
serloco wrote:
What is this? I've made this point before. You see we are all taught what to love and what to find sexy. We make this energy body up as we go. It all adds up to the responses, the chemicals, and the energy we are producing. If you say and BELIEVE and ultimately KNOW that you dont like robots, or that it wont work for you then your WILL is formed into that effect. Well now, it depends on how strong willed you are but in the end we all make our decisions and choices no matter how well informed, or not, they are. 

Are you saying you could fall in love with a robot through an act of will?

Indeed I am. I can control the energies of love to great extent. As well as discontinue love as well. The way I have my heart set up is that I love very deeply, and freely, however when I get scorned, hurt, abused, then that love gets cancelled. I suspend the act of loving so as to protect my emotional body. That was a result of having love used as a weapon in the iob worlds. Of course, I am also one to forgive very easily. Its in my nature. But wrong my heart once, and you will see it close very quickly, and with great detachment.

[Pixie Dust]

Le_Regard wrote:
Pixie Dust wrote:
Are you speaking of internal or external brokenness?

I don't know.  It could go either way.  The universe is completely inside of me and I am completely outside of myself.

Nice.  Are you speaking of tonal or spiritual brokenness?

[Pixie Dust]

Le_Regard wrote:
Le_Regard wrote:
Pixie Dust wrote:
Are you speaking of internal or external brokenness?

I don't know.  It could go either way.  The universe is completely inside of me and I am completely outside of myself.

I'll just say this though...  if you think people can't be broken, try breaking someone and see how it makes you feel.

I've been broken enough times to know that breaking someone else won't fix me.  I bet that must be nice to be Humpty Dumpty before the fall.  I think people allow others to break them in order to birth a better version of themselves.  It's instrumental self-harming, to fix what was broken, to sever unhealthy habits and relationships.  Sometimes being broken is necessary to break the glass ceiling.  All things said and done, being broken was totally worth the reward.  I was hunting for the mindf*ck of the century and found something even better than that.  If I could turn back time, I would be broken in all the same ways, all over again.  The silver lining is golden.

If you ever break someone--don't feel bad about it.  Sometimes you're helping them discover the best type of secrets one can imagine.      

Look at me babbling and giving advice.  I'm being silly again.

[Pixie Dust]

Le_Regard wrote:
Le_Regard wrote:
Le_Regard wrote:


I don't know.  It could go either way.  The universe is completely inside of me and I am completely outside of myself.

I'll just say this though...  if you think people can't be broken, try breaking someone and see how it makes you feel.

OH HEY did he actually send you $250?  Do you have $250 more than you had before now?

I'm really invested in seeing how that works out.

Billy and I just banter openly.  I take him as seriously as I take you--same sh*t, different character.

[Pixie Dust]

Le_Regard wrote:
Le_Regard wrote:
Le_Regard wrote:


I'll just say this though...  if you think people can't be broken, try breaking someone and see how it makes you feel.

OH HEY did he actually send you $250?  Do you have $250 more than you had before now?

I'm really invested in seeing how that works out.

I don't even know why I'm saying this... but I'm committed to my Art, and this is an experiment that needs to happen.  If he HASN'T given you $250 and that all went bust, I'd consider sending you like... $7?  Maybe $9 if you're really pushy about it.  Might be hot, I don't know.

I'm not really into any bdsm-esque scene.  Gotta finish my second season of Stranger Things and find out if Eleven closes the Hell gate.  They've renewed for seasons 3 and 4 so I'm going to assume the Hell gate didn't close.  Whatever the case, I'm quite busy with bigger things right now.  I'll keep you in mind though.

[Pixie Dust]

Pixie Dust wrote:
Le_Regard wrote:
Pixie Dust wrote:
Are you speaking of internal or external brokenness?

I don't know.  It could go either way.  The universe is completely inside of me and I am completely outside of myself.

Nice.  Are you speaking of tonal or spiritual brokenness?

Either way, finding home mends the brokenness.  It's a pretty quick fix for such a complex problem.  The real struggle is discovering what home really means and recognizing one's spiritual family.  It doesn't help any when that family hides in the darkest corners of the universe.  It takes some degree of searching, but with enough grit, the bridges get built and we find those we've been missing.  

It's quite beautiful to arrive home.  Turns even the b*tchiest of witches into p*ssycats.

[Le_Regard]

Pixie Dust wrote:
Pixie Dust wrote:
Le_Regard wrote:


I don't know.  It could go either way.  The universe is completely inside of me and I am completely outside of myself.

Nice.  Are you speaking of tonal or spiritual brokenness?

Either way, finding home mends the brokenness.  It's a pretty quick fix for such a complex problem.  The real struggle is discovering what home really means and recognizing one's spiritual family.  It doesn't help any when that family hides in the darkest corners of the universe.  It takes some degree of searching, but with enough grit, the bridges get built and we find those we've been missing.  

It's quite beautiful to arrive home.  Turns even the b*tchiest of witches into p*ssycats.

I wouldn't know anything about that.

[Pixie Dust]

The possibilities are endless.

[Le_Regard]

Pixie Dust wrote:
The possibilities are endless.

Are you describing your "Star Family" from another planet?  I got an email about that a few days ago.

[Pixie Dust]

Ignore that. We're past the bullsh*t. Let's talk in the other thread.

[Le_Regard]

Pixie Dust wrote:
Ignore that.  We're past the bullsh*t.  Let's talk in the other thread.

Acknowledged.

[Pixie Dust]

I'm sorry, we're totally not past the bullsh*t.  We may resume here.  To pick up where we left off:

Yes, I'm talking about my Star Family from another planet.  Keep that email!  You never know if you'll need to use it as a coupon to gain entrance at a discounted price.

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